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RenCutypoison said:
Shinobi-san said:

I'm not really "advocating" for anything. I am stating what the current norms and laws are in most places I've been to and if we were to change them it would be disastrous - at least in some regions of the world. I would even go as far as to state all regions of the world, as most countries have poorer areas with a general lack of security and safety.

I guess currently these norms are handled by the public and society - if there are a group of guys hanging out in a female toilet, anyone can go and complain to security etc. It can easily be handled. But if all those guys are legally allowed to randomly claim that they identify as female nobody can do anything about it. That shift in reality is logically worse than the current status quo.

Pretending to be trans' is a myth. Hormones make cis people go crazy, dressing as the other popular gender is ridiculed and automatically laughed at.

The problem with doubting claims is that it's all we have. Self perceived identity can't be proven or disproven.

And really, bathroom don't need laws to change. Just people to be more accepting, at most, but again, from my priviledged perspective, it's pretty chill rn.

I'm not talking about actual trans people "pretending" but rather those who intend on abusing a system. This is not an attack on trans people, but im rather pointing out that an open system has clear logical fallacies from my unique perspective.



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sundin13 said:
Shinobi-san said:

I'm not really "advocating" for anything. I am stating what the current norms and laws are in most places I've been to and if we were to change them it would be disastrous - at least in some regions of the world. I would even go as far as to state all regions of the world, as most countries have poorer areas with a general lack of security and safety.

I guess currently these norms are handled by the public and society - if there are a group of guys hanging out in a female toilet, anyone can go and complain to security etc. It can easily be handled. But if all those guys are legally allowed to randomly claim that they identify as female nobody can do anything about it. That shift in reality is logically worse than the current status quo.

You pose this assertion of disastrous consequences without any proof or evidence that such disastrous consequences would occur. Further, in areas where we have already seen individuals be allowed to use the bathroom of their choice, the have been no disastrous consequences, which should invalidate this argument, yet I still see it made commonly.

And again:

"The potential for abuse by cis men goes both ways. If individuals are allowed access to bathrooms based on gender identity, a cis man could claim to be a trans woman and enter the bathroom. On the other hand, if individuals are allowed access to bathrooms based on their gender assigned at birth, a cis man could claim to be a trans man and enter the bathroom. Either way the potential for abuse exists. This is one of the reasons why there hasn't been any noted increase in such crimes in areas where individuals are allowed to choose their bathroom based on gender identity."

Laws restricting bathroom use do not protect people. They put transgendered individuals in harms way, and we do not see any tangible benefits. There is no trade-off here. Laws restricting bathroom use are harmful.

Again its an opinion from my unique perspective, but i don't think you are going to see my point. I also cant give you concrete evidence as I don't believe any impoverished country has adopted such laws - and they probably never will. Ghana is literally getting used to escalators and killing gay people. Goodluck with unisex toilets. That was mostly a joke but i guess we can agree to disagree. At the end of the day i just don't think some facets of life, can afford to trivialize gender identity.



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Shinobi-san said:
RenCutypoison said:

Pretending to be trans' is a myth. Hormones make cis people go crazy, dressing as the other popular gender is ridiculed and automatically laughed at.

The problem with doubting claims is that it's all we have. Self perceived identity can't be proven or disproven.

And really, bathroom don't need laws to change. Just people to be more accepting, at most, but again, from my priviledged perspective, it's pretty chill rn.

I'm not talking about actual trans people "pretending" but rather those who intend on abusing a system. This is not an attack on trans people, but im rather pointing out that an open system has clear logical fallacies from my unique perspective.

Well sundin pretty much /threaded this. Life is full of potential abuse, but here it's not been a problem yet, with large scales law applications. 

Probably because it's a place where people take shits and noone wants to see someone else take a shit. Or you can do that with porn or consent in 2020n anyway.

And any crime you could commit in a public toilet could be committed in a dark alley, which much less potential falldowns.

Plus this is probably only a problem for people who always lived with gendered bathroom, otherwise they would have learned everybody poops and noone wants to get assaulted during that moment. I mean, it's litteraly the most relatable shit.



Im curious though, how do we actually tackle the sports question?



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For me the bathroom is the silliest question, but well I'm man and don't feel threatened there.
Every reasonable public bathroom I've used is individual for n2 (and in female case n1 as well), and usually the male one for n1 have some separation so one doesn't look to another genitalia. So the privacy is the same doesn't matter if other people there are male, female, trans or any other.
So if one would even bother to restrict bathroom (as law usually does) public appearance would be the more relevant, not because of genitalia not being relevant, just because people would be comfortable (or not) based on how you look.



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Shinobi-san said:
Im curious though, how do we actually tackle the sports question?

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RolStoppable said:
Torillian said:

The issue I see with Rol's thought process is not that one is defining who they would date based on some criteria, but that that dating criteria is how you define who is and isn't a woman.

"what stood out is the statement that transgender women are women.

Simply ask yourself if you would draw a line between dating women and transgender women; if you are honest about it, the chance is higher than 99% that you will draw a line. At least I hope I am correct in assuming that 'transgender woman' means that a penis is still attached to such a person."

So basically transgender women can't be women because 99% of cis straight men wouldn't wanna fuck them and that's just "common sense"

My thought process arrives at the conclusion that a binary classification (man or woman) does not make sense. My original post had a flow to it, but it's been butchered a lot today.

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I assume this is an issue of society trying to make absolutely everything normal and acceptable. I saw Hiku's post with the series of comments from Harry Potter actors and actresses, and what stood out is the statement that transgender women are women.

Simply ask yourself if you would draw a line between dating women and transgender women; if you are honest about it, the chance is higher than 99% that you will draw a line. At least I hope I am correct in assuming that 'transgender woman' means that a penis is still attached to such a person.

But in any case, today's outrage culture is about shaming common sense, so it's very, very, very easy to offend people on social media platforms. The world has way too many people who believe that they are doing society a good service by fighting for the presumed interests of minorities.

First paragraph directly refers to tweets that were linked in Hiku's posts where actors and actresses gunned for binary classification. Second paragraph invites readers of my post to be honest about their own perspective, questioning if transgender women are truly women or if there is a distinction to be made. Third paragraph calls out how common sense is tossed out of the window on social media platforms which goes back to the first paragraph and the statement that transgender women are women.

Or to put it into other words:

A man is a man.
A woman is a woman.
A transgender man is a transgender man.
A transgender woman is a transgender woman.

Now I don't know if that's offensive or not. Gender identity and gender expression make it a point that things are not binary, but it could possibly upset someone that the four lines above are four separate lines instead of only two. It could be viewed as transgender people being the odd ones out.

A fundamental issue I recognize here is a premise of "they are different, but they want to be the same" and that's always going to clash with itself. But this could very well just be people like the Harry Potter celebrities trying to take a stand for transgender people without actual transgender people viewing it the same way. Transgender people might recognize that they are odd ones out and their actual goals may be something like getting respect as human beings rather than dictating that a transgender woman is the same as a biological woman.

I think the phrase "trans-women are women" is not a statement reaffirming a dichotomy so much as stating the trans-women are as much in the category of women as any other subgroup of women. The category of women can still be a broad continuum while making this statement. It's not to say that there are no differences between trans- and cis-women, but that part of affirming the identity of those who are trans is including them in the gender category to which they believe themselves to be a part. With this statement in mind, that most people would care about the difference between cis and trans women when choosing dating partners would be a difference between trans and cis rather than a different between trans and women. I think that the issue with not agreeing that trans women are women is that when you differentiate between trans women and women there's an implied "real" in there that is detrimental. 



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Shinobi-san said:
Im curious though, how do we actually tackle the sports question?

First of all, I think when having this discussion we have to first acknowledge that the question doesn't really matter. There's such a tiny portion of athletes who are both trans and top tier at their sport. You are talking about an issue that maybe impacts two people in the world, and the extent of it actually mattering is pretty low relative to other concerns.

That said, personally I think the issue revolves around the central unfairness of sports, because at the end of the day, sports aren't fair. It isn't fair to be almost 8ft tall and playing basketball next to other players who are under six feet. It isn't fair that some cis women have higher natural testosterone levels than other cis women. I agree that in some circumstances, being a trans woman competing against cis women gives you an unfair advantage, but at the end of the day, fairness shouldn't be the deciding factor, and without that argument I don't really see any objective footing to object from, but I'll gladly hear you make an argument if you would like to present one. 



sundin13 said:
Shinobi-san said:
Im curious though, how do we actually tackle the sports question?

First of all, I think when having this discussion we have to first acknowledge that the question doesn't really matter. There's such a tiny portion of athletes who are both trans and top tier at their sport. You are talking about an issue that maybe impacts two people in the world, and the extent of it actually mattering is pretty low relative to other concerns.

That said, personally I think the issue revolves around the central unfairness of sports, because at the end of the day, sports aren't fair. It isn't fair to be almost 8ft tall and playing basketball next to other players who are under six feet. It isn't fair that some cis women have higher natural testosterone levels than other cis women. I agree that in some circumstances, being a trans woman competing against cis women gives you an unfair advantage, but at the end of the day, fairness shouldn't be the deciding factor, and without that argument I don't really see any objective footing to object from, but I'll gladly hear you make an argument if you would like to present one. 

Odd, I have read and heard constant discussion over the subject of trans in sports and at least in Brazil it made the news a lot of times.



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sundin13 said:
Shinobi-san said:
Im curious though, how do we actually tackle the sports question?

First of all, I think when having this discussion we have to first acknowledge that the question doesn't really matter. There's such a tiny portion of athletes who are both trans and top tier at their sport. You are talking about an issue that maybe impacts two people in the world, and the extent of it actually mattering is pretty low relative to other concerns.

That said, personally I think the issue revolves around the central unfairness of sports, because at the end of the day, sports aren't fair. It isn't fair to be almost 8ft tall and playing basketball next to other players who are under six feet. It isn't fair that some cis women have higher natural testosterone levels than other cis women. I agree that in some circumstances, being a trans woman competing against cis women gives you an unfair advantage, but at the end of the day, fairness shouldn't be the deciding factor, and without that argument I don't really see any objective footing to object from, but I'll gladly hear you make an argument if you would like to present one. 

Individual assessment? It's treating everything with a blanket mentality that has led to the insane amounts of dysfunction we have to deal with now.