DonFerrari said:
RenCutypoison said:
Can you explain what you mean by sexuality? Sexual activity, orientation, genitals? The first is individual, the second is not linked in any way to transgenderism (Transmen and women have various orientation in similar repartitions has their cis counterpart).
What don't I get?
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Sexuality have nothing to do with sexual activity. You may be cis, trans, gay, straight, whatever and be virgin for the rest of your life or have sex daily that doesn't change your sexuality.
it is about the orientation/preference/independent of how one calls. Your gender or how you see your self is linked to your sexuality. You may have any of the hundread of sexual orientations that get defined continuously, still trans, cis, etc is part of that. Organs are also party of it.
So bringing that you are trans (which in a way also brings genital to the discussion) is also bringing an aspect of your sexuality, liking it or not.
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OKey guys, I can see that's really hard for you, but no, it DOESN'T BRING GENITALS TO THE DISCUSSION.
Transsexual is a cis term that has been replaced by transgender because cis get confused about sexuality.
You can like men and not be attracted by transmen. Most people who like men are unattracted by most men. Same with the other popular gender. You don't have to, and we don't want y'all to think you have to.
When cis talk about trans peeps y'all think of the 2-3 years, max 5, most people look incongruous during. But the most important part is the life after, which is the whole point of transitionning medically for people who don't originally look cis.
There are a lot of trans people who pass after a couple years and are not referred to as trans', because the whole point is people not being able to tell the difference. There are a lot of jokes about how you just need to be beautiful and rich nand everything is easy lol.
Now, for the rest. Trans people sexual orientation.
Transwomen who love women are WlW. Women loving Women are WlW. Women loving TransWomen are WlW.
Men loving Men are gay. Transmen loving Men are gay. Men loving Transmen are gay.
Edit : OHGAWD I litterally forgot about straight peeps did my brain queer-fired somhow wtf. Obvsly straight cis peeps === trans straight peeps
^See how similar this shit is ? so what does that have to do with transgenderism ? NOTHING
Now for the funny part everyone constantly forgets.
NonBinary loving women -> Gynosexual. (WlW and straight men are also gynosexual)
NB loving men -> Androsexual. (Gay peeps and straight women too!)
NB loving NBs -> Ceterosexual (weird one, barely used, always fun mentionning as NB).
For NBs, there is no gatekeeping shit. It's all about who YOU are attracted to. Not who's attracted by you.
You can only define yourself. You can't define others. So, no, transgenderism has nothing to do with sexuality. Because my gender identification is (me) and who I'm attracted to is (them).
Last edited by RenCutypoison - on 03 July 2020