Jaicee said:
Bejito1983 said:
A woman I know worked in an office only with women. The only man worked in a separate office and was the boss. She told me it was hell. One of her colleagues (a woman) insulted her, made fun of her and blamed her for anything and everything, just out of jealousy. She had depression, attempted suicide, fell into a coma, after her coma she was no longer the same and it destroyed her life and that of her family (she has two children). She told me verbatim that "women are the worst".
I worked in a big company. There was a conflict management service. Over 75% of conflicts were between women. These conflicts were for trivial things such as "she asks me too personal questions so I insulted her", "she is a hypocrite", etc.
In this company, for a while I had several women as a bosses.I received criticism of my work just for insignificant details. Whereas since the management team has changed (they are now women and men), I am told that I am doing a good job and that as long as the job is done it doesn't matter if I wrote in blue or in black.
All the people I spoke to told me the same thing, which is that it is difficult to work with a woman as a boss because they focus too much on unnecessary details.
People think misogynistic remarks are made by men, while research shows the majority of sexist slurs on Twitter come from accounts owned by women. So have more women in companies will not solve misogyny.
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In scoping out your profile, I couldn't help but be struck by the fact that this is only your 8th post here, though you've been a member for over three years now, and by the fact that one of your only other political posts (all of which are from this year) is this one from early February wherein you explained how Covid-19 is caused by obesity and compared mask mandates to "world war 3". My point being that...you know, you're not striking me as the most intellectually honest contributor we have in general, so I'm not really sure how much of your story I should just take at face value. I've got the feeling you're somebody who's inclined to see yourself as a victim when you are not and to interpret life through a strictly self-serving lens. That in the first place.
In the second place, yeah women can definitely be toxic and abusive toward other women for sure! I know that from my fair share of a lot of first-hand experience just living life. Hell, I've been that woman myself lots of times! There are certain kinds of abuse though that really do tend to specifically come from men in the overwhelming majority of cases. Rape threats would be one of those, for instance. Sexual violence in general would be another. These are the sorts of issues we're talking about here and the culprits clearly are predominantly men here. The primary form of misogyny women receive from other women online is what they call "slut-shaming", as in describing women one is perhaps envious of as whores, sluts, cunts, and other sex-specific insults implying that women, and women specifically mind you, should be modest, this sort of thing. That is not the crux of what's been going on at Activision-Blizzard and I think you know that.
Nope, giving women more decision-making power in the companies they work for won't eliminate sexist attitudes and it won't solve every problem. It might help solve THESE problems though, and that's why I agreed with Twintail.
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I NEVER compared Mask mandate with the world war 3. I quote myself : "I'm afraid of what will happen next : Recession. I wonder if the number of suicides will exceed the number of deaths from covid-19. Maybe a world war 3."
I meant that a WW3 could happen after the Covid19 and that scared me a lot more than the Covid19 itself.
What I said is not at all delusional and I am not the only one to have said it. French politician Jacques Attali posted on Twitter on February 12, 2022 the following: "In the twenties of the previous century, a great pandemic followed a very great war. In the twenties of this century, a very great war may follow to a great pandemic…”
I NEVER said that Covid-19 is caused by obesity, I said : "99,9% of deaths were over 65y old and had a comorbidity. In USA, there are a lot of people dying from that desease because USA is one the countries where there are the most obeses in the world."
Obesity is a comorbidity, it's not something that cause Covid-19. All serious doctors agree that obesity is a comorbidity just like diabetes and hypertension.
Source (it's in french. You can use google translate) : https://www.topsante.com/medecine/maladies-infectieuses/zoonoses/vaccin-covid-19-comorbidites-642183
I translated the important part for you :
List of comorbidities eligible for the Covid-19 booster:Obesity (BMI over 30)
COPD and respiratory failure
Complicated hypertension
Heart failure
Type 1 and type 2 diabetes
Chronic renal failure
Cancers and malignant hematological diseases active and less than 3 years old
Trisomy 21
Transplantation of organ or hematopoietic stem cells
I thought what I wrote was pretty clear. Don't you know what a comorbidity is?
I hope you're not trying to lie, because it would be pretty silly to give the link to my comments on the subject.
You said that : "I couldn't help but be struck by the fact that this is only your 8th post here, though you've been a member for over three years now".
Sorry, I'm not fluent in english so I always struggle to post a comment that could be easily understood.
You say that I see myself as a victim, but you see violence towards women as the most important to talk about. I'm a man, but I don't talk that much about that fact that victims of murders are in vast majority men. I think the most important people are children. But people rarely talk about the fact that 70% of kids killed by one of their parents, are killed by their mother.
You see all men as potential culprits, and when a man say that he is a victim, you say that he is wrong and he should man up. It's like they say in my country: heads you win, tails I lose.
I see all these scandals in the video game industry with skepticism. I wonder if this is not a way for some women to receive compensation. You have this very procedural mentality in the USA. If you slip on a fry while leaving Mc Donald's you will claim millions in compensation. This mentality, like your whole culture, spreads as far as Europe nowadays.
I let the judges make their own opinion. Not having all the elements, I do not pronounce myself and I do not accuse all the people of the same sex to have the same opinions or the same behaviors.
I know of several men who have been accused of sexist attitudes by their colleagues or superiors for reasons that range from joking with a female colleague; having made a mistake by mentioning the overweight of a colleague without meaning to; etc On the other hand, these same men have received remarks from women because they live with their parents at 30, because they are not interested in marriage; or for trainees: because they don't work at their age. There is even one to whom a woman said that he looked like an onion and that his balls must have been hanging...
The problem is that sexist insinuations are only considered serious when the culprit is a man and the victim a woman.
Just like pedophilia in some countries. For example in France, the President in office is the victim of Brigitte Trogneux his teacher who began to abuse him at the age of 14 years. She became the first lady of France.
You admit to having spied on my profile in order to find things to criticize about me and not about my comment or my opinion on the situation at Activision-Blizzard.
Isn't that a kind of harassment? lol
Last edited by Bejito1983 - on 02 March 2022
