She's a skank, nail her ass one last time and dropkick that bitch.

Yeah that was her fault.. using a website..

she should have used an app like Snapchat, where you can text and send pictures and when they are recieved and viewed by the other then those messages and pictures are deleted with a few seconds leaving no trace at all on your phone... so i have heard..

I'm never going to forgive her, never want her back in my life, and happily moved on with someone else. I just wanted to know that I made the right decision. She still thinks she's right though which is concerning because she's just going to put the next guy through the same shit. She's actually mad at me for humiliating her at Starbucks. I printed the conversation, dropped the papers on the table she was sitting at, said "This terminates our friendship," and left. Even though she deserved it for cheating I only did that so she'd stop sleeping with random losers from a dating site called Tagged. She's heading down a very dangerous road. I mean look at how ridiculous that conversation is. It's like something from a comedy.

Even though she did you wrong and she sounds like she's no good....it's gonna hurt.  It's gonna hurt for a long time.  Be strong, man.

Are you already with someone?

This post is not trying to offend you. English is not my first language so I don't know if one can say so.

Yeah I did find someone else shortly after.

Wow your gf sounds like the most boring person ever lol

Good luck. I am not convinced that rebounding after a 4 year relationship and not forgiving her will help you, and you have LOTS of things to work on if she didn't want to tell you what was wrong, but I know you don't want to hear that.

Kudos for having the balls to do that, and good on your for moving on, but other than that you need to work on yourself.

Good luck in your upcoming trials and journey. This one might be the right one.

Dude, that is way too much evidence. A couple of things:

Why would you want to be with someone that thinks it is OK to lead someone one like that, if she truly wasn't going to sleep with him. (Which I don't believe, if she found him attractive.)  That is so creepy and manipulative on her part.  I don’t care for people that use others that way.

How many other people has she done this with and not told you?

You caught her, she didn't come forward.  7/8 of an Iceberg is underwater.  How big is her iceberg?

Now, if you want to be with a person in an open sexual relationship, that's is fine.  That is your choice.

But it monogamy is something you want, then you need to let her go do what she wants to do, and free yourself to find the person that wants what you want.  By staying with her you might be missing out on someone who is a better match.

You are young, and I assume she is too.  She may need to grow up and explore, before she is ready to settle down (if ever.)  Now a few years down the road, maybe you two will get back together.  But right now, I think you deserve a person with more integrity.

/bro hug