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No offence but if you think 'we only agreed to have sex with each other' constitutes being compared to an actual relationship, you're out of your mind, basically she said yes to you, doesnt feel comitted to you (sorry but again, sex alone is not comittment, you're just using each other), and feels the need to shop around for something better.

Long story short, if you want to be with a girl that won't screw other guys, get in to an actual, legitmate relationship or shut up.



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sethnintendo said:

LOL. Well done. 



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luigiman5555 said:
Kuramakun said:
Yeah, If shes your Girlfriend, she shouln't be on a Dating site in the first place, Sorry man, But if you got the proof, She is a Cheater, If I where You, I'd bang her one last time for the fun of it, Then dump her, lol And find the dudes adress and Break his car windows for shits and giggles.
But that's just me I'm Vengeful like that :P

We weren't officially boyfriend and girlfriend but we had promised to only sleep with each other. We were definitely in a closed relationship and therefore the same rules applied.


So you two were fuck buddies.



Question: Anyone here into NTR?



Sexting more than cheating.



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luigiman5555 said:

A girl and I were in a closed relationship and I know her for almost four years. I saw a dating site conversation that revealed she had agreed to sleep with a total pervert. I even found her at the location where they planned to meet. He never showed up but attempted cheating is still cheating. She told me that she wasn't really going to sleep with him but should I believe her and if not, should I forgive her? This is the basic gist of the conversation:

HIM: Beautiful girl like you should've been snatched up a long time ago. Wanna make out sometime this week?

HER: ok

HIM: Wanna come over to my house this Friday and make love?

HER: I'm free on Friday. If you want we can go for coffee or something I don't go to people's houses if I've never met them before.

HIM: Wanna make love in my house after coffee?

HER: ok maybe

HIM: Cool. What's your phone number?

HER: [insert number]

HIM: When and where do you wanna meet today?

HER: what about 4 at starbucks?

HIM: Okay. What Starbucks?

HER: [insert location]

HIM: Sounds good. Still wanna make love at my house after?

HER: maybe

HIM: Why maybe?

HER: because I dont know you very well

HIM: So what would I have to do?

HER: nothing

HIM: If you acknowledge that I am the nice guy that I am after coffee, would that "maybe" be a "yes?"

HER: yeah I guess

HIM: Guess or for sure?

HER: for sure

HIM: Perfect! How do you feel about open relationships?

HER: they are fine sometimes

HIM: Are you good at giving blow jobs?

HER: i dont know

HIM: Out of all the guys you've slept with, how many have given you an orgasm?

HER: only one

HIM: Babe, tonight I'll be giving you multiple orgasms. What do you think about that?

HER: that would be good

HIM: So how many guys have you slept with that are hotter than I?

HER: maybe two

HIM: See you at 4:00 babe.

HER: bye

Oh shit it was starbucks? Tell her I am sorry I must have confused something....  Ask her if she wants to meet again okay? 

You can join us if you like. I mean its okay when its in a 3-way right?





Nem said:
ThatGreekGuy said:
tbone51 said:
Thats not cheating, thats SEXTING!


But she went to meet him.


If she did then theres nothing to ponder. She must be dumped.

Cheating... (you know what the next word is).

Slut



She sounds like a female version of those creeps on "to catch a predator", "I wasn't going to do anything". Bullshit, you're way too good for her, get away from that person and never look back.



Tachikoma said:
No offence but if you think 'we only agreed to have sex with each other' constitutes being compared to an actual relationship, you're out of your mind, basically she said yes to you, doesnt feel comitted to you (sorry but again, sex alone is not comittment, you're just using each other), and feels the need to shop around for something better.

Long story short, if you want to be with a girl that won't screw other guys, get in to an actual, legitmate relationship or shut up.


Well said.



happydolphin said:
Tachikoma said:
No offence but if you think 'we only agreed to have sex with each other' constitutes being compared to an actual relationship, you're out of your mind, basically she said yes to you, doesnt feel comitted to you (sorry but again, sex alone is not comittment, you're just using each other), and feels the need to shop around for something better.

Long story short, if you want to be with a girl that won't screw other guys, get in to an actual, legitmate relationship or shut up.


Well said.

I completely agree



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