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She still lied, cheated, and broke the trust though. Why should I shut up about that?



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Dude, you better dump that B****! I'm sorry but she is a terrible woman! "Um okay!" WTF bro!?!? Do you even really need to ask!? I don't care how good the pussy is, there's always more and better out there...



Tachikoma said:
No offence but if you think 'we only agreed to have sex with each other' constitutes being compared to an actual relationship, you're out of your mind, basically she said yes to you, doesnt feel comitted to you (sorry but again, sex alone is not comittment, you're just using each other), and feels the need to shop around for something better.

Long story short, if you want to be with a girl that won't screw other guys, get in to an actual, legitmate relationship or shut up.

We were in a closed relationship and promised to only sleep with each other.



Akvod said:
luigiman5555 said:
Kuramakun said:
Yeah, If shes your Girlfriend, she shouln't be on a Dating site in the first place, Sorry man, But if you got the proof, She is a Cheater, If I where You, I'd bang her one last time for the fun of it, Then dump her, lol And find the dudes adress and Break his car windows for shits and giggles.
But that's just me I'm Vengeful like that :P

We weren't officially boyfriend and girlfriend but we had promised to only sleep with each other. We were definitely in a closed relationship and therefore the same rules applied.


So you two were fuck buddies.

We were still in a closed relationship and promised to only sleep with each other. Even if she never cheated she still lied and broke the trust.



luigiman5555 said:
Akvod said:

So you two were fuck buddies.

We were still in a closed relationship and promised to only sleep with each other. Even if she never cheated she still lied and broke the trust.

Apologies if I feel no pity.



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luigiman5555 said:

A girl and I were in a closed relationship and I know her for almost four years. I saw a dating site conversation that revealed she had agreed to sleep with a total pervert. I even found her at the location where they planned to meet. He never showed up but attempted cheating is still cheating. She told me that she wasn't really going to sleep with him but should I believe her and if not, should I forgive her? This is the basic gist of the conversation:

HIM: Beautiful girl like you should've been snatched up a long time ago. Wanna make out sometime this week?

HER: ok

HIM: Wanna come over to my house this Friday and make love?

HER: I'm free on Friday. If you want we can go for coffee or something I don't go to people's houses if I've never met them before.

HIM: Wanna make love in my house after coffee?

HER: ok maybe

HIM: Cool. What's your phone number?

HER: [insert number]

HIM: When and where do you wanna meet today?

HER: what about 4 at starbucks?

HIM: Okay. What Starbucks?

HER: [insert location]

HIM: Sounds good. Still wanna make love at my house after?

HER: maybe

HIM: Why maybe?

HER: because I dont know you very well

HIM: So what would I have to do?

HER: nothing

HIM: If you acknowledge that I am the nice guy that I am after coffee, would that "maybe" be a "yes?"

HER: yeah I guess

HIM: Guess or for sure?

HER: for sure

HIM: Perfect! How do you feel about open relationships?

HER: they are fine sometimes

HIM: Are you good at giving blow jobs?

HER: i dont know

HIM: Out of all the guys you've slept with, how many have given you an orgasm?

HER: only one

HIM: Babe, tonight I'll be giving you multiple orgasms. What do you think about that?

HER: that would be good

HIM: So how many guys have you slept with that are hotter than I?

HER: maybe two

HIM: See you at 4:00 babe.

HER: bye

Yes, she did. And considering how candid she is discussing this with a complete stranger I don't think it's the first time either mate. 



forget her.



Cobretti2 said:
Ok after reading all 11 pages, here is my thoughts.

1. Looked like you were fuck buddies and not in a relationship.

2. Most people already told you what to do with her.

3. I am disappointed because you already broke up with her and didn't take out revenge on this other guy.


This is WHAT you should have done:

After finding the conversation and finding out that he didn't show up.

You should have used your GFs profile to contact him and say the following:

"I was disappointed you didn't show up. I been thinking it over and in fact I would love to come over to your house"

He would then give you the details.

At the same time, use her profile to hit onto some psychotic looking guy. Then be like "oh i'm so horny wanna come over to my house for a root?" he be like sure.

Then you give the guy the other guy's address. Repeat this about 4x and stagnate the times you want them to come over by like 30 minutes.

Could have thrown in a few gay guys in the mix.

LOL! We were more than just fuck buddies though because we had promised to only sleep with each other.



Dump the bitch and move on with your life. Nothing left for you to do there.



Sigs are dumb. And so are you!

PS. Who says let's "make love" to a complete stranger? lol

That was a really, really, really, weird conversation.