Did my girlfriend cheat on me?

[Zappykins]

luigiman5555 said:

radiantshadow92 said:
yup thats cheating

She told me she wasn't really going to sleep with him. Should I believe her? Why would she lie to him and even try to meet him though?

Dude, that is way too much evidence. A couple of things:

Why would you want to be with someone that thinks it is OK to lead someone one like that, if she truly wasn't going to sleep with him. (Which I don't believe, if she found him attractive.)  That is so creepy and manipulative on her part.  I don’t care for people that use others that way.

How many other people has she done this with and not told you?

You caught her, she didn't come forward.  7/8 of an Iceberg is underwater.  How big is her iceberg?

Now, if you want to be with a person in an open sexual relationship, that's is fine.  That is your choice.

But it monogamy is something you want, then you need to let her go do what she wants to do, and free yourself to find the person that wants what you want.  By staying with her you might be missing out on someone who is a better match.

You are young, and I assume she is too.  She may need to grow up and explore, before she is ready to settle down (if ever.)  Now a few years down the road, maybe you two will get back together.  But right now, I think you deserve a person with more integrity.

/bro hug