you have to find out for yourself in which god to believe lol

if you have evidence then what is there to believe in ? :S

believing is like love there is no evidence its just a part you

? are you sayin he will punish you no matter what ?

"My question to the athiest member's of vgchartz is if you had a faith why did you leave it-..."

A combination between this: http://gamrconnect.vgchartz.com/thread.php?id=152041&page=1

and this: http://gamrconnect.vgchartz.com/thread.php?id=142384&page=1

After having such thoughs, it made no sense for me to stay religious. No matter how I twisted it, God came off as unjust.

"-...and how has your life changed since becoming an athiest?"

Not much, except I don't fear thinking curse words anymore. My relatives have no idea that I am no longer religious though. Telling them would be too risky at this point. They are all very kind, but I have no idea how they would react.

You just posed Pascal's wager. Which is a really poor position on several grounds:

1) logical and mathematical ground 

There's no more reason to believe in an omnipotent being that rewards what we generally perceive as good and faith than there's of an omnipotent being that doesn't care about our faith or morality, or even a malignant demon that punishes the pious and rewards free thinkers. As such, all the infinite unsubstantiated possibilities cancel out and there's no definite advantage in game theoretical terms in choosing a behavior or religious position over any other.

2) behavioral grounds

You can't force yourself to believe in something. Belief is a subjective property, not something you can fake in front of an omniscient being

3) moral grounds

Even if you could force yourself to believe something or if you decided to act according to a given moral rule because you weighted the pros and cons of Pascal's wager, it would be an amoral choice, stemming uniquely from a logical pursuit of maximum satisfaction. A judeo-christian god, being the ultimate moral compass, would find such behavior hypocritical and devoid of real ethical meaning.

That's interesting, but I think this example is  useful to explain what is faith.

(btw. I'm not a religious person but I've studied, for some reasons long to explain, a bit of christian theology).

Since the ultimate message of Jesus life, and in the end the ultimate message of christianity is to donate everything you possess and yourself to others (donate even your life), considering the matter of donating your life from the Pascal's wager point of view wouldn't even make sense if you don't firmly believe in the existence of god and in the existence of something beyond life (you wouldn't have any pros). Then if you belive in god so firmly to be ready to give up on everything, it means you must consider its message ethical. If you're believing in god because you are scared of it, it means you are just trying to protect yourself and your integrity from god, any person in this situation won't be reasonably willing to give up on everything, including life.

if you choose to believe just because you want to go to heaven, its justified IMO and even a priest will tell you the same thing. that is if you want to be a part of somethig you must choose you cant just wait for it to happen and that is also justified. something wrong with this ? i dont think so :S people do always say like "god made me like this" and "no one gave me the chance" there is a chance and there is nothing wrong with that...you learn through life maybe your not such a great believer but you will learn it i takes time..at the end of our lives everyone will say "oh GOD".

no you cant force yourself to believe in something but you can get used to it after a while

and maybe who knows find yourself that you really believe on god. it can happen

I used to be Muslim. As a kid, I would just do as I was told and never really think about it. Even though a lot of it often seemed arbitrary, and sometimes even ridiculous. I don't remember a specific moment when I decided I was atheist. It just happened over time as I learned to think for myself. I noticed how irrational, contradictory, and plain silly the stuff they believed was.

Anyways, my life hasn't changed much, except I stopped doing some stuff. I stopped going to weekly prayers, my dad was too cool to act like it bothered him haha. My mom tried to persuade me to go back, but I didn't, and they kind of forgot about it. I guess they figured I'd come around eventually. I was lucky to have such nice parents. I know a friend whose dad forced him to pray as a kid.

anybody going to tell me how to become a believer ?

LOL, or is it a fact, that VGChartz demography covers more the christian dominated regions of the world instead of the muslim or buddhist countries?

To counter that thing: some chinese and japanese people I knowed while studying (they were studying in germany) are atheists too, so probably also in  buddhist or shinto-region you can find atheists. It only show you only read the english part of the internet, that is dominated by christian countries.

No, it is different. If you not believe anything, you're not agnostic or anything, you're really an atheist. Look at Russell's teapot:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Russell's_teapot

If I don't believe in the teapot, I'm not a possible believer. Sure, if someone proofs there is one with undeniable facts, then I will believe it, but the default is unbelieving.