Rainbow Yoshi said:
So recently I met this girl through a best mate then we got talking exchanged numbers, and added each-other on social networking sites such as Facebook and Twitter. We talked everyday and it was going so well, she seems really interested in me and then all of a sudden she just randomly ignores me. Did I not make the move, or is she just toying with my emotions? I just don't get it and I'm wondering if I should just text her once more and see if she replies.
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There are some options.
1) You did something that she finds offensive/disgusting, so she does not want to be related to someone like that.
2) Maybe when you 2 where knowing each other, she also was knowing someone else. She might have had both of you as potential bf, but the other guy "won" so, she is ignoring because she knows you like her; and considering she is already in a relationship she is not interested in you anymore.
3) You may have thought that she was interested in you, but it was not true, so you have said/done something a bit akward for just a friendship relationship, so she is ignoring you, because she is not interested in you at all.
4) Maybe just something happened to her, so she is not in the mood of having a Bf, so considering that it seems that you were looking to be her bf, she is ignoring you.
5) She is just playing with you. Why? I dont know but it is possible, it has happended to me :(
6) She is having her mind on something else.
7) I DONT KNOW!!! XD
As you can see, whichever one is the case here, you are mostly screwed. If you really care (in love maybe) about her, then I think you should try a more direct aproach so you can know what is happening. Hopefully it will be scenario #6. Obviously you wont ask her directly "WHY ARE YOU IGNORING ME"!!!!!, just try to start a conversation face to face if you find her alone or with some of your friends so you can tell them to GTFO of there.
Most probably she will still be non-talking when you try to speak with her, just ask her a few things, if she acts like always, just keep talking unless the conversation becomes boring. And there you go situation resolved YEAH!!!!!
But if all she says when you try to talk with her is yes/no/maybe; then it is time to do your exit, just say that you have something to do, and say to her see you later. All of that must be done in a cool way; women can smell desperation so it will get the things worse if you begin to act desperate. Be cool. It looks like scenario 1-5 and 7 are the ones here. lol
If all of that happends it most probably means she does not give a crap about you anymore. If you still want to know why the sudden change; I recommend you to ignore her too. If you both frecuent a place a lot, just act like she is not there. Once you do that on a daily basis for some days, I could swear that she will try to make something to catch your attention again, I dont know what she might do, but you will notice because you are very interested in her. If that scenario develops, then my fellow VGcharter, I think that it would be the best for you to just forget about her, because she is just playing with you.
You may think "she is looking at me or, she is speaking to me again" and because of that you may want to try again to get close. You can try if you feel like it, and if all goes well, good for you!! What could have been the reason for the change I dont know, and you will most probably wont care either LOL XD.
But if it happens again and she begins to ignore you, then I advice you to just forget about her.
That happened to me some years ago at college, and I learnt it the hard way. I have been in that fucking viscious circle of stupidity (on my part sadly) for a 3 years, but in the end I just realize that it had to stop, so I just forgot about her. Was a bit hard considering all the stuff she began to do, but it is possible.
Have luck and, remember, be cool!
EDIT: NOW THAT I HAVE READ SOME COMMENTS, I think that what I have written wont be of use.... ¬_¬
