Cobretti2 said:
A203D said:
richardhutnik said:
Rainbow Yoshi said:
ultima said:
Rainbow Yoshi said:
HulkWasRight said:
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Almost two days ago (properly talked).
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Holy shit, you're blowing this out of proportion man. How did you get so attached from texting anyway? How old are you guys if you don't mind me asking?
Like pretty much everyone else in this thread, I also think you should ask her to hangout. If she rejects you, then fuck it, she's not worth it. Don't let them play around with you like a toy. Some girls are like that: you show a sign of weakness, and you'll be her proverbial punching bag for as long as you stay.
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Yeah, I did, waiting for a reply on that. And I'm 15 and she's 14.
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Another basic rule: About everything relationship wise at that age is disposal, outside of maybe your family. Platonic friends, romantic friends, enemies, etc... usually all fade out and go away. At that age to, teens don't understand what is involved and will mess up a lot. It happens. Your goal is to survive until you get to be an adult, and pick up lessons in life in order to function as an adult. This would mean responsibilities, paying the bills, and all the boring stuff your parent(s) have gone through and do go through.
Another rule: People on here are not your friends. They are people who happen to share an interest in videogames you have. I would suggest you try to find individuals that are real friends, and more mature adults, to discuss these things with. You get a grabbag of results on here, not all are wise or right advice. People here really don't know you either, so it would be best to find people who know you offline you can confide in and discuss this.
Anyhow, good luck with everything. Expect to get a bunch more heart broken as you go on in life. It happens. Learning how to roll with it, figures into growing up. And what you see here is not the end of the world either way. Life goes on. It just seems larger than it actually is.
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This is actully the best peice of advice someone has offered on this subject. Some people here are your friends though, its just a different type of friendship than in the real world.
I know this goes against this richardhutniks advice, but I think the best solution in this case to ask one of her friends whats going on. Women talk to each other a lot, and you never know she might have told her friends that she likes you but she just waiting for you to make the move. The girl will tell her friends things that shes unwilling to tell you.
"Expect to get a bunch more heart broken as you go on in life".
This is horrible, but its true. It happens to both men and women (not just men), and honestly the best thing you can do is let this situation carry you forward rather than letting it take you down. Learn and adapt. I have this happen to me on more than one occassion, and yeah its really painful. But never let it beat you!!
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Second this agreement.
Also, you question was so vague that you got about 10 pages of vague and varying responses.
1. How long you know this girl?
if it is a sort period of time do NOT throw out the LOVE word, it may fuck the situation further.
2. How often did you communicate when she was in the mood to communicate?
3. At what frequency have you been sending text messages when she stopped communicating? hourly? daily? weekly?
Remember too many text messages is stalking and you may be creeping her out as it makes you seen desperate. Equivalent to Howard Wolowitz v leaving too many messsages on girls answering machines (Big Bang Theory).
4. Do your comms (other then what you shown) indicated like you are panicing/desperate/paranoid to her?
Be careful what you text as messages are emotionless and can be interprited the wrong way. Also "am I texting too much" is something you should not EVER say again to any girl. Also don't always text back straight away as it makes it look liek you are waiting for her to text and have nothing else to do. If you make her wait sometimes she may think about what you are currently doing, hence you end up on her mind.
5. How old are you?
This will help narrow down answers.
6. Are both of you the same race/nationality?
Strangely enough this can play on people's minds of what their parents, family and friends will think
7. Have you met her friends? and/or said anyhting stupid/weird to them?
Lets face it girls talk. These days in a early freindship trying to go into a relationship, you need to impress her friends. Otherwise they will tell her you are nto the right guy for her.
Best advice I can give here (mainly for future), is avoid meeting her friends at all cost for a while. That way you can establish yourself with the girl. So when her friends do spot a querky thing with you, she can say yer I already know. or she can simply say yer but you guys dont know him like I do, over all he is a decent guy
8. Have you smuthered her with your words?
Words liek your awesome, cute, sexy beutify etc..They get the point, you dont need to mention it everyday.
At this stage it appears you have alot of damage control to do. Besat option would be as mentioned talk to close friends and stop stalking her. Just cool down on the texting.
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