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leo-j said:
I want someone to just be there.. and be my friend for the longest time.. I need that person in my life.. I keep getting hurt by lies

What lies?

If you want a friend, an IRL friend, join a club... or just go out and do things, friends will come naturally.



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my fucking boyfriend the only fucing person in my life that helped me.. fucking destroyed me.. I have little friends that care.. that lie fuck , that lie that he was was what I wanted.. I have no fucking other popl to help me right now



 

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Things will pick up leo, there are bad times in life, but it is only because of those bad times do we truly appreciate the good times :)

(but for the time being do what barozi said and go to bed :P)



Chrizum said:
If you're on drugs: stop doing drugs.

If you're not on drugs: go do drugs.


L O L

 

Epic. xD



spurgeonryan said:
If she is screaming at you then you need to leave the house. Not too mention that you are like 19 or 20 years old and an adult. Unless you are in the military no one ever has the right to scream at you.

Correction, everyone has the right to scream at him... but he has the right to ignore it.



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Stop listening to lady gaga.



Stuff happens. Don't get yourself down. Staying down will prevent you from seeing new oppurtunities for jobs, friends, etc. that will arise. Don't be caught in a cycle of seclusion and depression. Get yourself together before this actually becomes a problem and move on.



"Everything we hear is an opinion, not a fact. Everything we see is a perspective, not the truth." -My good friend Mark Aurelius

leo-j said:
I want someone to just be there.. and be my friend for the longest time.. I need that person in my life.. I keep getting hurt by lies

This is the way of modern life... All people here will feel as you do at some point, and then, due to insanity, will plunge head first into their meaningless lives of sense gratification. Thus, forgetfulness will impell them to convince you that life is great. By the time you have your next steak or sleep with some meaningless woman, you'll think life is sublime again.

My personal emancipation from this endless cycle of depression (and you bet your ass any intelligent person should be depressed about the raw deal of material life) and elation has been Bhagavad Gita - especially one of the final verses:

Text 66

sarva-dharman parityajya
mam ekam saranam vraja
aham tvam sarva-papebhyo
mokshayisyami ma sucah

 Translation

Abandon all varieties of religion and just surrender unto Me. I shall deliver you from all sinful reactions. Do not fear.

This being the internet though (and heaven knows why I still occasionally come here), my advice will be ridiculed and blasphemed. But you are desperately asking for help and even though I have no cedibility here, I am telling you that a serious uptake of spiritual life is the solution to all problems of life.

Krishna explains that one of the four types of persons who surrender to these teachings is one who is in distress. Some notable personalities have taken advantage of this knowledge:

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"In the morning I bathe my intellect in the stupendous and cosmogonal philosophy of the Bhagavad-Gita, in comparison with which our modern world and its literature seems puny and trivial." ~ Henry David Thoreau

"The marvel of the Bhagavad-Gita is its truly beautiful revelation of lifes wisdom which enables philosophy to blossom into religion." ~ Herman Hesse

"I owed a magnificent day to the Bhagavad-Gita. It was the first of books; it was as if an empire spoke to us, nothing small or unworthy, but large, serene, consistent, the voice of an old intelligence which in another age and climate had pondered and thus disposed of the same questions which exercise us."" ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

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Do you want to just forget about the pain and then guarantee yourself more of the same in the future, or would you like to come face to face with the cause of suffering for the real self?

http://vedabase.net/bg/

 



leo-j said:
my fucking boyfriend the only fucing person in my life that helped me.. fucking destroyed me.. I have little friends that care.. that lie fuck , that lie that he was was what I wanted.. I have no fucking other popl to help me right now


If you base your happiness on another person then you are bound to be destroyed time and time again.



Bristow9091 said:
Go bash one out... that helps me when I feel down, if that doesn't work then go to bed and try again when you wake up.

Finally! Another person that says "bash one out"!