Just started back at mentoring for the year, working with a group of a dozen or so autistics aged 17-19; with this range we mostly focus on supporting them through the last years of high school and the transition to the post-school world, which can be an incredibly difficult stage of life even at the best of times. A big part of it is just showing them that their future isn't all doom and gloom, as us teachers are autistic like them and we are "adulting" just fine. When I was their age there were just no positive role models for kids on the spectrum, and I felt like I had no future; that's something we hope to change for the next generation.
No matter how long I do this job, I still get anxious as hell and feel imposter syndrome kicking in before going back to work, but somehow once we start it works out. I mean, it's a challenging occupation, but it's also amazingly rewarding.
Anyway, first session went really well! Most of the kids were pretty shy and withdrawn but that's normal at the start of a program as the setting and people are new to them which can be scary. As things go on, they tend to become more comfortable and come out of their shell more and more.
Me being a gamer is a HUGE help. So many of the kids are passionate gamers themselves, so its a great way to connect with them and make me seem less like a boring old teacher haha. Never fails to make me smile when I mention I'm into Nintendo and see their faces light up. When I bring my Switch on stream when we share our interests it always gets a great reaction.
In out first session for example, one of the kids was a big Nintendo fan and another was super into Monster Hunter, so we immediately had a point of connection.
Our "special interests" are a huge focus of the program, and I've seen kids who wouldn't even speak at the start get to the point of giving a speech in front of the whole group about their love of Zelda or Minecraft by the end. Gaming really can be a wonderful thing, especially for those of us who need an escape from the stress of the real world sometimes, or who can use a little help connecting to others.
Last edited by curl-6 - on 10 February 2022