The Fury said:
Nowhere in the OP did it say the person was male either. |
No, but I kinda implied it actually. I should have made a quick-second version swapping "she" for "he" and implying the reader being female.
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The Fury said:
Nowhere in the OP did it say the person was male either. |
No, but I kinda implied it actually. I should have made a quick-second version swapping "she" for "he" and implying the reader being female.
Wright said: No, but I kinda implied it actually. I should have made a quick-second version swapping "she" for "he" and implying the reader being female. |
Yeah, I know. Just pointing out the idea that it doesn't matter as 'you' could be any gender and to me it's still a matter of trust, not sexuality.
Hmm, pie.
Wright said:
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It's not just the thread title but also the Erica avatar sig combo :P
But in the end. I am not attracted to transwomen. So I'd politely break off the relationship...but deep inside I would be pretty pissed.
On the somewhat lighter side, there's no way I'm bangin' a dude. Period.
On the more serious side, such a long deception would permanently damage my trust in the person. No way I would start a marriage with such a huge lie.
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Bloodbath Paddy Wagon Ultra 9
I would have a tough time placing myself in this position, but I would feel pretty betrayed if someone held out a secret like for so long.
axumblade said:
For this scenario, if you are referring to the "female" in this story, a person who is transgendered that identifies as a female (and plans to become a female) is not a homosexual by default. Gender Identity is not associated with homosexuality. It's about comfort in your own skin, and not whether you like penis or vagina. The lead singer of the band Against Me! is transgendered and he (well, she now) is happily married to a woman and they have a child. If you're referring to Wright, he is bisexual, and he was merely asking a theorhetical question. It's not like he's going to throw on a dress and some high heels and try to find those users who gave the right answer in this thread...Well, to my knowledge. As for the idea that most homosexuals wants to turn straight people gay, it's complete bullshit. Most gay guys will joke with their heterosexual friends but it happens just as often between heterosexuals (only we don't use stupid phrases like "no homo" just in case the wrong person hears us telling a joke.) That doesn't mean that we want to sleep with you or turn you, in fact, most gay guys have no interest in heterosexuals because why go after somebody who obviously isn't interested in you sexually? There are a few out there that might do that, but just because there are a few people out there who are one way, doesn't mean it completely invalidates the majority of people who do not feel that way. It's like saying you don't like Christians because of the Westboro Baptist Church. There is always going to be some exception out there who is completely counterproductive to a specific group, but why act like it's the majority when it's really an insignificant number? |
Well, my interest in this thread has seriously decreased.