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In both my past relationships not only did I masturbate, but I knew for a fact my partner did as well, we'd even discuss it. My last ex was into some stuff that I was sadly unable to provide for her, so she satisfied that desire via porn; I was fine with it and she didn't have to go unfulfilled. Unmet needs are poison to a relationship.



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teamsilent13 said:

Yes, but you are aware of the problem and should be able to fix it. Unless you have weak moral courage and ability to self control. Think of Christopher in the Sopranos and getting high causing their car to crash. Tony Soprano knew he was a junkie that would kill his daughter if she were in the car so he decided to kill him to protect the danger he was to his family. This is what you are doing to your future family and relationship by instilling the belief that cheating is okay. Also, yes I am able to control myself so no hypocrisy here. I have watched porn, ect. but never in relationships and it never hurt my ability to have sex or anything. Any who hint this are very immoral people to peddle such lies. I agree with the guy saying to masturbate to pictures of her, but it's better not to masturbate at all. Masturbation is natural they will have you think, but there's plenty of evidence that it did not happen at nearly the same frequency in the past as in today because of increased porn. I believe it's obvious that many sexual mental illnesses today are caused by increased porn use. I could discuss what this did to the Middle East when Israel started weaponizing it against them, but there's articles on the internet if you care to read. This is why I have always supported any politician or policy that would limit or ban porn. 

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LivingMetal said:

I really want to have very little to do with this thread. But according to statistics, 1 out of every 2 men watches porn. And I highly doubt that every one of those 1 out of 2 men are single, not married, not dating, etc. That's all I have to say.

I'm pretty sure one of those men are lying.



Statistics show that it is actually healthier for the relationship.



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Talk to her about it! As long as shes cool with it then no reason to feel guilty.



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CaptainExplosion said:

Hey, I just met this really nice lady who really likes me for who I am, and she's pretty much the best thing that's ever happened to me.

Just so you know, we haven't ever had sex, haven't even seen each other showing much skin, we're just not there yet. However, often I find myself looking at art, photos or videos of sexy ladies, and sometimes I just can't help but masturbate to them, but part of me doesn't feel right about it anymore now that I have a girlfriend.

Is it wrong to masturbate when you've got a girlfriend?

Why not watch porn together?

It is a great way to get in the mood. Especially if she is frigid/nervous/shy.

If you're effective enough, you can turn her into Mrs. Captain Explosion: ready to blow at any time!



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CaptainExplosion said:

Is it wrong to masturbate when you've got a girlfriend?

It's her job to masturbate you, why would you bother having a girl friend to begin with if you are going to do it yourself? What is she even there for, what's the point?

Also this cultural habit that humans have to "get in a relationship" is absolutely bizarre to me. Why would anyone want to have someone else occupying their living space? Are you in such a hurry to see your fridge get emptied twice as fast? Do you really need someone else touching your belongings, do you really need to have only half the space for your belongings as she'll obviously take space for hers? Why would anyone want someone else to have a key to their home etc...

So many things that make no sense in human culture, so many questions, so few answers.