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outlawauron on 21 December 2016

I'm happily married. It's not for every one and I hope no one should feel obligated to do so. Only with the right person.



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cmay227 on 21 December 2016

Marriage is just religious bullshit. Been with the same woman for 20yrs 3 kids and happy as hell. Don't need a bullshit piece of paper. If a government piece of paper is that important to the chick or guy then their not worth the hassle.



UltimateGamer1982 on 21 December 2016
Jumpin said:
Well, if you are ugly, of low intelligence, or have other genetic defects, then definitely don't marry and don't breed. We're overpopulated as is, and only those with strong genetics should marry and reproduce.

Don't forget poor. Way too many poor ppl with low paying jobs or on government assistance having 3, 4 or more kids is just plain stupid. Sounds harsh but if you can't afford a decent life for yourself, what makes ppl think they'll do any better for their kids? 



LadyJasmine on 21 December 2016
UltimateGamer1982 said:
Jumpin said:
Well, if you are ugly, of low intelligence, or have other genetic defects, then definitely don't marry and don't breed. We're overpopulated as is, and only those with strong genetics should marry and reproduce.

Don't forget poor. Way too many poor ppl with low paying jobs or on government assistance having 3, 4 or more kids is just plain stupid. Sounds harsh but if you can't afford a decent life for yourself, what makes ppl think they'll do any better for their kids? 

It depends in certain countries wyou can make a living on that from social benefits. 



curl-6 on 21 December 2016
LadyJasmine said:
I think men become miserable alone past the mid 30's...
My older male cousin married to my friend (yeah a big age gap lol) and he seems far happier.

Trust me, it doesn't take until your mid 30s haha.

Unfortunately, sex and relationships are a competitive field, and in any competition there are losers. That's just life.



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Soundwave on 21 December 2016
Lawlight said:
Soundwave said:

If you're a rich guy or a rock star or athlete ... sure don't get married. Or get married and just fuck other women too, it's kinda expected.

But for regular joes ... lol ... I mean, so what exactly is the plan? To be the weird 40 year old guy at the nightclub on a Saturday night hitting on 21 year olds who think he's gross? That doesn't sound wildly appealling to me either. 

Lots of men want kids too, good luck finding a women willing to have her vagina stretched out to push out a baby for a guy who's not willing to commit. Like I said too, you probably want a mother for your children as well, your collection of video games or Star Wars merchandise or second car isn't going to help you raise children, cook for them, clean up after them, etc. etc. etc. 

Divorce sucks, but "stay single forever" isn't exactly a great option either. 

So, you think only 21 year old women go to nightclubs? Have you been a nightclub lately? Most are in their late 20s or early 30s.

I think men marrying in their early 30s or younger should get a pre-nup.

Depends where you live I guess, but most attractive/semi-attractive women by the time they are in their mid-20s have a steady boyfriend. I don't see too many 30 year old women at a nightclub. 

If you live in a bigger city like New York or LA, there are clubs with older women sure, but that's really not the norm. 



VGPolyglot on 21 December 2016
curl-6 said:
LadyJasmine said:
I think men become miserable alone past the mid 30's...
My older male cousin married to my friend (yeah a big age gap lol) and he seems far happier.

Trust me, it doesn't take until your mid 30s haha.

Unfortunately, sex and relationships are a competitive field, and in any competition there are losers. That's just life.

Well, hopefully most people can find enjoyment outside of sexual relationships. Platonic friendships are still very valuable, whether with the opposite sex or not.



curl-6 on 21 December 2016
VGPolyglot said:
curl-6 said:

Trust me, it doesn't take until your mid 30s haha.

Unfortunately, sex and relationships are a competitive field, and in any competition there are losers. That's just life.

Well, hopefully most people can find enjoyment outside of sexual relationships. Platonic friendships are still very valuable, whether with the opposite sex or not.

It's not the only source of pleasure, but most human beings do feel a need for sex and intimacy.



VGPolyglot on 22 December 2016
curl-6 said:
VGPolyglot said:

Well, hopefully most people can find enjoyment outside of sexual relationships. Platonic friendships are still very valuable, whether with the opposite sex or not.

It's not the only source of pleasure, but most human beings do feel a need for sex and intimacy.

Yeah, but It's important to remember that the other sex is human too, and not just a sex object.



Lawlight on 22 December 2016
VGPolyglot said:
curl-6 said:

Trust me, it doesn't take until your mid 30s haha.

Unfortunately, sex and relationships are a competitive field, and in any competition there are losers. That's just life.

Well, hopefully most people can find enjoyment outside of sexual relationships. Platonic friendships are still very valuable, whether with the opposite sex or not.

Platonic friendship with the opposite sex, good one. Well, I suppose it happens once you found your soulmate.