I would not be suprised by something like that. I have sometimes done litle wach games with my sisters on people stuck on the side of the rodes. Just park at viewing range and see how many people offer help. Men tend to get very litle, most of the time none at all. women tend to have some guy stop and help her with in 20-mins, and familys tend to be helped out only by other traveling family. I cant say we done that a lot, but thats what I gather.

Im a pesimist a bit, so yea, I belive the men willing to help you did expect something from you, its kind of male nature. But dont think thouse men represent the comunity, but a select few who thought they had an oportunity(porn has thought them it always leads to sex :p). And from what hear and the few canadians I have met, Canada seems to be the nicest place on earth. I was at college when my family did a trip there and said the same thing of just how nice everybody was. I would love to visit myself.

Pre-nap are valid, if you put too many ristrictive clauses that are just stupid, you're asking for trouble. If you have questions, talk to your lawyer, he will set you up with something that will be fair for both parties. Don't expect to walk out of a marrige without consequenses, after all you took the vows for better or for worse, and if you did you homework and found a considereate spouse, you'll never have to use this piece of paper.

If you came in into the marrage with your own home and pension, you can exclude those from being touched by your spouse, but if you both created wealth together expect those to be split. You are NOT required to pay child support if you ask for joint custody. If she does not work or does not like to work, then it's your fault for marrying such a girl. Expect to help her out while she get a job or remarried. If you think you can just wipe your ass clean of a contract then you're dead wrong. That's why you take the time before marriage to choose carefully. Take it seriously, it's like starting a business, it's not easy and it can have dire consequenses if you don't do your homework.

Also be considerate enough to tell your future wife what you want from a marrige. If you don't want her to be fat, tell you off the bat that you love her figure, and that you are willing to help her stay healty for both her sake, as well yours and your future children. If you both do activities together, and stay off the fast food, you wont need to worry about this crap. If you marry her for the looks only, then I wish you luck.

Yeah here guys help and I smile and maybe a thankful hug and they are more then pleased. 

What do you consider fair?

Child suport seems fair to me. Joint custudy would be ideal. The problem is amounts. Life time lamony is out of the cuestionto me. 

going in with your own house des not protect the house. Sorry but no. If she contributed nothing economically then she gets nothing at the end. Its the only thing I see as fair. I will suport my kid even after 18, but if she decided to leave, then she decided to not be financially depended on me. where I to cheat or run off, then yea it makes sense I pay for it.

And again. We try to choose the best mate. But like some others have said, they sometimes completly change after marriege. something can happen along the way and she hates you. She can choose to not work after kids, even if you agreed before that she would always work. Nothing is certain. Even doing the right thing can get you screwed.

That should be enoughf. Would be for me. will be for most even if they want more. At least where I live everybody also seems nice and willing to help just for helping. Like you said, big citys seem to be where most of that attitude comes from.

But you have to tel me, you have got to have met some jerk at least once in canada. Cant be that perfect. At least a catty jellous girl. Something.

Yeah if you go to clubs and such you met jerk guys all the time.

Be like 37 years old and single hitting on 18-19 year olds lol 

So it's game over for us married men?????

Im sorry we thought you all knew.

Is that why they are jerks? But sounds like you experience that.

But i it any better the other way around? Ive been hit on by 18 year olds, kind of whent out with one as well. not at  club cuz thats illegal and have to be 21. And im only 27. Kind of curious.

It's not my opinion that matters, what matters is what you end up deciding when you talk to your lawyer. If your own property and wish to protect it, make sure it gets written up. I would offer to pay for her lawyer too, (if she can't afford one) its not all that expensive 1-2k fees is nothing when you're protecting 100k+ property. It's the price of doing business. Some girls don't like it when you tell them about a prenaptual agreement, but if you ran into one of those, let them go. After all, whatever you make together will be split up 50/50. Independent people who are educated are not looking for your money, they are looking for a good person to enjoy life with, but again, be honest and straight forward about what you want in a marrige upfront, that is what dating is about, getting to know the other person, not just screwing them.

About people changing after they get married, well that is true; however, one would hoped you had enough time to date that person, meet their family, talk to the mother and father, see how your future spouse was raised. Get invovled with the family and see how disfunctional they are, if they are a solid hardworking family, chances are those great qualities have been passed down to your future spouse.

http://time.com/money/4455829/marriage-good-for-couples-finances-tell-your-story/