DraconianAC said:
Pre-nap are valid, if you put too many ristrictive clauses that are just stupid, you're asking for trouble. If you have questions, talk to your lawyer, he will set you up with something that will be fair for both parties. Don't expect to walk out of a marrige without consequenses, after all you took the vows for better or for worse, and if you did you homework and found a considereate spouse, you'll never have to use this piece of paper. If you came in into the marrage with your own home and pension, you can exclude those from being touched by your spouse, but if you both created wealth together expect those to be split. You are NOT required to pay child support if you ask for joint custody. If she does not work or does not like to work, then it's your fault for marrying such a girl. Expect to help her out while she get a job or remarried. If you think you can just wipe your ass clean of a contract then you're dead wrong. That's why you take the time before marriage to choose carefully. Take it seriously, it's like starting a business, it's not easy and it can have dire consequenses if you don't do your homework. Also be considerate enough to tell your future wife what you want from a marrige. If you don't want her to be fat, tell you off the bat that you love her figure, and that you are willing to help her stay healty for both her sake, as well yours and your future children. If you both do activities together, and stay off the fast food, you wont need to worry about this crap. If you marry her for the looks only, then I wish you luck. |
What do you consider fair?
Child suport seems fair to me. Joint custudy would be ideal. The problem is amounts. Life time lamony is out of the cuestionto me.
going in with your own house des not protect the house. Sorry but no. If she contributed nothing economically then she gets nothing at the end. Its the only thing I see as fair. I will suport my kid even after 18, but if she decided to leave, then she decided to not be financially depended on me. where I to cheat or run off, then yea it makes sense I pay for it.
And again. We try to choose the best mate. But like some others have said, they sometimes completly change after marriege. something can happen along the way and she hates you. She can choose to not work after kids, even if you agreed before that she would always work. Nothing is certain. Even doing the right thing can get you screwed.
It takes genuine talent to see greatness in yourself despite your absence of genuine talent.
