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m_csquare said:
This thread is sooo depressing. You need someone in your life. Maybe not right now, but when you're old; when you need your denture to chew your dinner, you'll wish you have that special person.

While most human beings do, sooner or later, desire an intimate partner, the reality is not everyone will attain one, just like not everyone will attain a high paying job, own their own house, or live passed the age of 50.

On the bright side though, the odds aren't bad. Globally, there are 101 men to every 100 women, so even taking into account that some people are asexual/not interested in relationships/etc, the vast majority of people should be able to find a partner. A minority will miss out, but that's just how the cookie crumbles.



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Lawlight said:
LadyJasmine said:

I think any guy who marries me will be happier I think.

 

 

Unlike most women I wont think it odd he likes to watch Star Wars or play video games as I likely be playing with him 

There are women who thinks it's odd that people play games or watch movies?

 

 

Some girls I know find guys who like Star Wars to be geeky which is absurd as Star Wars is more popular then anything that we think is mainstream...



m_csquare said:
This thread is sooo depressing. You need someone in your life. Maybe not right now, but when you're old; when you need your denture to chew your dinner, you'll wish you have that special person.

But... if we're talking abt the marriage law, then yea something needs to be done abt it. I know how awful life is for a divorced man in a muslim country

Can't you have multiple wives in a muslim country?



Lawlight said:
m_csquare said:
This thread is sooo depressing. You need someone in your life. Maybe not right now, but when you're old; when you need your denture to chew your dinner, you'll wish you have that special person.

But... if we're talking abt the marriage law, then yea something needs to be done abt it. I know how awful life is for a divorced man in a muslim country

Can't you have multiple wives in a muslim country?

If you're rich, sure. If you're poor or lost your job, your wife has every right to divorce you. Ironically, you're still obligated to feed both your exwife and children even after divorce.



The thing about Star Wars is that even a non geeky fan hears a Tie Fighter and be like ...

 

Yep thats Star Wars.

 

 

In many other franchise such small details would be known by the big geeky fans.

 

My point being the Star Wars franchise is so big (in NA mostly) small details are well known.

 

Its a Trap! 



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Classic tv shows where the male worked and the wife stayed at home to cook, clean and care for the children are the glory days of traditional conservative middle class family. Left wing leaning Communist/Socialist political correctness has changed Europe and America for the worse. High divorce rates and political correctness ensures women keep the children and get huge pay day when they divorce. 



Dark_Lord_2008 said:

Classic tv shows where the male worked and the wife stayed at home to cook, clean and care for the children are the glory days of traditional conservative middle class family. Left wing leaning Communist/Socialist political correctness has changed Europe and America for the worse. High divorce rates and political correctness ensures women keep the children and get huge pay day when they divorce. 

Why should the woman have to stay at home and cook/clean?



You only live once... it's hard to not find happiness with others. So yeah, you don't have to get married to that person. So maybe your reasoning is people shouldn't get married and there's why.



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Look at marriage from an objective standpoint and realize that it is a civil contract that unifies the assets of two individuals or estates. In other words, it is the act of making a union recognized by the government which means the government now legally governs over said union.

So there is the potential for alimony payments if the merger is dissolved and the splitting of assets. Lesson being, if you choose to enter such a legally binding merger, only do so if both parties contribute assets equally (both pre merger and in terms of productivity while the union remains intact) unless you don't mind potentially losing half of what you brought into the merger and making monthly payments to your former partner to maintain their standard of living.

This is before children are even taken into account. Add child payments in this instance and realize in most Western nations that women are granted custody about 90% of the time. Defaulting on child support payments can put one in arrears, landing them in prison.

Not trying to scare anyone, just making it clear what marriage is. It's a legally binding merger of estates. So know very well what you are buying into if you choose to do so.

Nobody goes into marriage with the idea in mind that theirs will end in divorce, which is obviously a defeatist mindset, but realistically, a good percentage of marriages ed in divorce. There are roughly half the number of divorces per year as there are marriages. 32.2 marriages per 1,000 unwed women and about 16.9 divorces per 1,000 married women. So a 16.9 to 32.2 ratio of divorce to marriage in 2015 which is not the same as saying 16.9 marriages out of 32.2 ended in divorce.



Don't let anyone rush you to engagement. Be 100% sure. Even if it takes 10 years of dating for you to know what you're getting into.



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