I'd say talk to her for why she lied to you. Then if you still want to, dump her (carefuilly). If a girl like her is too ashamed of the way she looks (becuase she's fat) that she has to hide herself behind people; and that she had to deceive you by using camera angles, then she still has issues that need to be resolved (with you or by herself). This is one of the reasons why I don't do online dating. I've had girls (really hot ones too) e-mail me for a date but I turned them all down.

I understand that it can be hard to lose weight for some people. But for most that can easily do it without too much struggle, it's no excuse to hide it since it can make other people question them, and think of them differently. Obesity/fatness is a health issue; but with todays society, it's often treated as a lifestyle, people etc. 

Thoes are my two cents. You can ignore it, disagree, whatever I don't care.

It sucks that you had that experience. I've had some great experiences with some hot chicks, but talking about women whom are in shape as if they are inferior is just as bad as talking down about someone who is fat. Women are women and some people based on personal experience have certain preferences. If hes not turned on what is he to do? Don't be so hard on him. People aren't perfect. What hes guilty of is leading the girl on in the first place. :)

Ditto

Anyway, lol @ people saying it's shallow to dump someone you're not sexually attracted to, and in this case, never really were to begin with. Granted, you shouldn't put yourself in that situation, but ok.....internet dating.....that's a discussion for another time.

The point is, sexual chemistry is a huge part of a good relationship, and if it's not there, then you're never going to be truly happy with that person. So what's the point? 

Now if she were just slightly overweight, I'd say help her lose it, like some other people here......but what you're describing is wayyyy overweight. Obese really. She must have done one heck of a job on those pictures for you not to notice. Anyway, that's not a project I'd want to be part of, and I don't blame anyone else for feeling the same. If people disrespect their own body like that, why should anyone else appreciate it? 

"Twinkies or me?"....... u wont break his or her heart and ur a free man or girl.....

There's nothing wrong not feeling attracted to her, so you should not feel shallow for it - everyone has different tastes. It is important to be with someone you feel attracted to. However I do not think you should say it to her, it would sound rude and there's not much she can do about it (at least in short term, and according to what you said, she doesn't seem to be willing to change much and is fine with it).

So just come up with some excuse and walk away. Say an ex girlfriend is hitting on you again, and you still have some unresolved feelings for her. This always works for me. Always.

I edited my post to show that people who hate attractive women are really throwing out a double standard and its really hypocrisy to attack the attractiveness of a woman and say "nothing is there behind them" opposed to the average or overweight woman. The question is whether hes physically attracted to her in the first place. Some people are overweight but theres something about their features that he might be attracted to. I dont know why people are trying to place the bad karma on him pertaining to whether she loses weight or not, but fact remains that if he makes that decision even though it might hurt her at least its honest. The truest of mistakes is that he let the whole charade go on as long as he has. 

It is shallow, but human beings are shallow people. It's very difficult to date someone if you don't have a physical attraction to them. That's the whole point of being in a relationship. If you just like spending time with someone without wanting sex then you're better of just being friends. 

Have to have sex with her from behind, worried about being seen with her. Sounds like, as you said, you're just a very shallow person. Be honest and tell her that. You're the one with the issue, not her. You saw what she looked like and still continued the relationship. Lying to her only makes you worse. Man up and tell her the truth. Hell, it could be the motivation she needs to change.

Dont leave the Girl.Fuck her every day but let she do the hard work and not you. So she will leave weights in having sex with you. Quite simple.

Yes, reconsider saying you have a decent personality.