What's the best way to break up with someone because they're fat?

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Angelus said:

S.T.A.G.E. said:

Euphoria14 said:

You also lost me when you said "I'm afraid of what would happen if my friends see me with her".

If your friends are assholes enough to give you shit for the women you date, well, then fuck them, they are assholes and not worth your time.


Give up your unrealistic expectations and shallow friends and find a woman who fits your full criteria and is not only "good looking", but also not a total comatose case in bed.


I have had many "beautiful" women in my life and I can tell you that for some reason, the more perfect the figure and looks, the worse they seem to be disappointing in bed.

Looks only get you so far my friend. You want a girl who makes you feel like a champ in the bedroom. Not a girl that makes your friends give you a fucking high five.

It sucks that you had that experience. I've had some great experiences with some hot chicks. :)

Ditto

 

Anyway, lol @ people saying it's shallow to dump someone you're not sexually attracted to, and in this case, never really were to begin with. Granted, you shouldn't put yourself in that situation, but ok.....internet dating.....that's a discussion for another time.

The point is, sexual chemistry is a huge part of a good relationship, and if it's not there, then you're never going to be truly happy with that person. So what's the point? 

Now if she were just slightly overweight, I'd say help her lose it, like some other people here......but what you're describing is wayyyy overweight. Obese really. She must have done one heck of a job on those pictures for you not to notice. Anyway, that's not a project I'd want to be part of, and I don't blame anyone else for feeling the same. If people disrespect their own body like that, why should anyone else appreciate it? 

I edited my post to show that people who hate attractive women are really throwing out a double standard and its really hypocrisy to attack the attractiveness of a woman and say "nothing is there behind them" opposed to the average or overweight woman. The question is whether hes physically attracted to her in the first place. Some people are overweight but theres something about their features that he might be attracted to. I dont know why people are trying to place the bad karma on him pertaining to whether she loses weight or not, but fact remains that if he makes that decision even though it might hurt her at least its honest. The truest of mistakes is that he let the whole charade go on as long as he has.