Cub said:
No, I don't. I don't have more sympathy for them more than I have for someone who thinks he has a big nose and who wishes to get a plastic surgery. I was one of the ego dystonic homosexuals. Did I want a cure? BADLY, I praid for one everyday, I collected money to visit psychiatrist and took excessive anti depressant doses (they prescribe SSRIs for homosexuals in the middle east, why? no idea, probably cuz they these drugs make you worry about other shit than where your dick is gonna go). Why did I hate myself? because Islam told me homosexuality was wrong. All I had to do was reading and realising and learning and I am happy with who I am now and the way I life my life. Ego dystonic homosexual should get over themselves the way I did. I sympathasize with ego dystonic homosexuals the way I sympathasize with people who wants a prettier face when they obviously don't need one. I try to help them and make them realise that they're beautiful. |
This isn't the same thing, people who have big noses come from a family with big noses, it's genetic. Homosexuality occurs randomly, like many disorders or genetic diseases/mutations.
If a child was born with down syndrome, would you be against a drug which fixed this?
If someone were born with a low sperm count, or had very few fertile eggs, would you be against In Vitro firtilization?
If someone were born with a hermaphedite, would you not want to make them normal again?
Even just someone with a limp, if you were born with a deformed femur, would you be against surgury to fix this?
This isn't a matter of self improvement. Curing homosexuality isn't done for cosmetic reasons. You can live with it fine, just like a down syndrome kid, or a heterosexual with reproduction issues, or a hermaphedite, or a person with a limp can live fine. However not everyone wants to live with a disorder like that.
Cub said:
So I assume you are against people with Obsessive compulsive , avoidant , dependent etc disorders? You do know that lots of these personalities disorders are controversial and for all we know years from now they will not be labeled disorders anymore? So what if someone's obsessed with the way things are done? "let's change him and normalize his behaviour" is really not the answer to these "disorders". There is nothing wrong with schizoidal people, they don't want a social a life? horray for them , people are stupid anyway. Also, what if they really do find a cure for homosexuality years from now, you are gonna make your son take it for the rest of his life? You obviously have some clinical experience, have you not witnessed the dangerous adverse effect that, for example, antipsychotic drugs have? am I really better off with these drugs just so I can reproduce? I mean, some of the addverse effects aren't even reversible. How is a drug going to change your stance on gay marriage, I don't get it..... Also, no! homosexuality isn't believed to be the result copying genes the wrong way or whatever you are trying to say. The cause? unknown, that's the best that can be said about it. Is it a gentic mutation ? possibly. Is that a bad thing? no, not always. Infertile people are actually SOMETIMES infertile for a reason, I'll expand on that later when I re-read about the subject but in a nutshell interfering with "mother nature" and "force" reproduction of infertile people can result in a blood line that has defective genes that weren't supposed to be passed... We need to stop spreading the false misconception that "reproduction" is the only "right" thing to our species. |
If you can cure obsessive compulsive disorders (which are harmful to individuals in extreme cases) then I'm all for it. It's an illness people can live with, but why not cure?
Why are you against cures? If someone had the cure for the common cold, would you throw it away?
Did you honestly say who cars about schizophenic people? Wow....wow, just honestly go work in a mental hospital for a bit, the shit these people have been theough? Their lives are worse then hell man. Wow. Yes there are side affects, but these people do not live happy lives without medication.
You just said schizophenea is acceptable, just take a read at what you're saying. Look, reading your comments I can see you might be a homosexual, so you clearly have a strong view pro-homosexuality. I don't hate gay people, and I got my degree in Astrophysics, I like to take things for the way they are. There are misconceptions about homosexuality, it was removed from the DSM-III due to political pressure and hate crimes against homosexuals, but there is no gay gene. It's not something we evolved genetically, it's not a lifestyle choice, it's not something we become (like alcoholics), it's a defect. It's something outside of the control of the individuals.
Even if you just look at wikipedia, all the sources state that homosexuality is not psycholigical and that " It would appear that sexual orientation is biological in nature, determined by a complex interplay of genetic factors and the early uterine environment. Sexual orientation is therefore not a choice."
We shouldn't hate people for being homosexuals, it's something they are born with, at random. You aren't say because your parents are gay, it's a random defect. This is the misconception that people have, which should be cleared up. However it's still a defect/disorder, and it's likely biological in nature instead of psychological.
As for the side effects of medications. Yes, early cures will have heavy side effects. Of the curable stands of schizophenea, some of the side effects can be extreme. However in the last 30 years they have gone from having a combination of chronic pain, insomnia, depression, nausia, vomiting, loss of appetite, and migranes to simply having a low sex drive and difficulty concentrating.
Homosexuality isn't as extreme of a disorder as schizophrenea, but even schizophrenic people aren't forced to take medication. They are only forced to take medication when their condition is either dangerous to others, or when it prevents them from living regular lives (paying rent, feeding their children, etc). Once institutionalized, people are let go once successfully treated, and unless they become dangerous again there is no community treatment order to keep them in a hospital. Homosexuals will never become dangerous, there will never be institutionalization for homosexuals who engage in homosexual behaviours (at least in North America, maybe in Muslum countries this will happen).
You can't force someone to take medication for homosexuality, it's a very minor disorder, completly livable. However individuals should be able to choose to take curing medications themselves. If even one homosexual want to get married and live a heterosexual life, it's their freedom to choose to look for a cure. You can't speak for all gay people.
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