In my opinion unless you're ready to become a father figure to those kids at one point or another than don't date this woman. If you guys were just FWB, and met at your place away from the kids from time to time it would be one thing, but at this point you're changing diapers and feeding them. It's confusing to the kids and unfair.

What are you people talking about? How old are you? get the heck out?

the most important question is: Is she still hot after 2 kids and if so post a pic

My girlfriend has one kid and the boy once called me father, I took the responsibility to educate the kid into not calling me father and know that I'm not his father.

I think you have some feelings for the girl, just for having changed diapers it's a lot in my mind lol. The saddest thing imo is that you didn't talk to her for 2 weeks because of that... which is immature in my book. If you're affraid of something just tell her and I think the reason why she tried to deny boy's say is because the real father was there and she didn't want to start an argument because the one year old kid can't tell the difference between his real father and you...

Man up will you and at least give her news.

Have to say man up and tell her.

If not you lose points as man and makes you look very weak for not being real.

I don't think her having kids needs to be a problem unless you two make it a problem.

Just make sure to educate the kids that you're not their biological father and it shouldn't be a issue.

Having said that however, she denying that the child said that and you not having contacted her for two weeks seems to be a sign that one or both of you weren't ready for the relationship.

As for the real father being there. There is no excuse you can't communicate with him. Real immature. Unless he is a huge ass hole and ignores you. But if he is mature and realizes his relationship is over with the girl and is okay with it and also realizes his duties as a father than there is no reason you two can't be adults about raising the kids. You can involve him in his kids you know.

What I would have done is talk with both parents about what steps they wanted to take(together). If they wanted to educate the kid about who the father was then the next conversation is who wants to have that talk with their kids. Should it just be the mother? Just the Father? Should it be you? Should all three sit and talk with the child? Or should it be the mother and father

I'm going to be 23 pretty soon for the people asking how old I am. I mean there have been attempts to contact her by a text here or there but I'll admit they weren't the most sincere attempts to reach her. I was thinking more that she should be the one to initiate a call since I wasn't really in the wrong. I don’t know why the whole dad thing freaked me out so much. I just wish I was never introduced to kids at this point.

Okay, I say man up and roll with the punches. Call her and break it off. Tell her that you were never ready for that level of a commitment but it didn't occur to you till the incident. Then apologize for being a straight up ass hole.

After that let her say what she wants to. Don't argue with her. Don't interupt her. Take your lickings. Don't allow her into guilting you back into the relationship.

Be a man and go see her. Confront her about how she outright denied you as being the father and tell her how you feel about it. Be honest with her and if need be, have a talk with the father if he is mature enough.

Everyone is different and because of this, I am not going to go on one of my long-winded rants. I am going to put it simply; you care too much about it so let the relationship go.