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pokeclaudel said:
I'm going to be 23 pretty soon for the people asking how old I am. I mean there have been attempts to contact her by a text here or there but I'll admit they weren't the most sincere attempts to reach her. I was thinking more that she should be the one to initiate a call since I wasn't really in the wrong. I don’t know why the whole dad thing freaked me out so much. I just wish I was never introduced to kids at this point.

Okay, I say man up and roll with the punches. Call her and break it off. Tell her that you were never ready for that level of a commitment but it didn't occur to you till the incident. Then apologize for being a straight up ass hole.

After that let her say what she wants to. Don't argue with her. Don't interupt her. Take your lickings. Don't allow her into guilting you back into the relationship.