Here's the deal, truly great games always attract some hate and controversy.
This top ten is games that were designed in order to avoid displeasing anyone. They were just playing it safe like the huge productions they are, just like huge hollywood movies, they seek the widest appeal possible.
I mean the best games this gen include Guns of the Patriots and Demon's Souls and Valkyria Chronicles. But these games were not watered down in the slightest in order to reach a wider audience. They were absolutely uncompromised and that's what makes them truly great.