cause they are girls... they tend to overthink and the doubt themself... she won't know if it's really love or she just feels sorry for you cause you are a nice guy..

Y u b hatin' D:!

also because if shes, for example, heartbroken when she met you. her receptors are set to "off" by default. so ayone she meets during that phase, shes not interested in at all. also applies if she's been in a happy relationship (note that most people who fall for other people do so because they aren't happy, it makes sense).

also also, if you're too persistent in your affections when the above applies^, she'll be switched off probably for good. thats happened to me and i cant think of a better way to descibe it. it really is just like a shut-off switch,

again though, thats really just experience on my part. it could be different for the rest of them.

Must have been a lucky guy if she said yes.

Thanks for all this info trashleg!

or an idiot for wanting to ask me in the first place

silly, silly boy...

Great description. Makes perfect sense. I fully believe it works like that for most women.

Sorry to hear this. Dont bother yourself with what she see in the other guy that she dont see in you. Its plain and simply a matter of chemistry, shes not physically attracted and its not something you can change. You are obviously a better person then the other guy, he beated you with a group...

She may become attracted to you later on. Though, the way you describe the situation, I would suggest to stop seeing her immediately and completely. You should be fine in a matter of weeks ; ).

I was hoping that story would get told when I saw it too

That's mean.