NiKKoM said:
cause they are girls... they tend to overthink and the doubt themself... she won't know if it's really love or she just feels sorry for you cause you are a nice guy.. |
also because if shes, for example, heartbroken when she met you. her receptors are set to "off" by default. so ayone she meets during that phase, shes not interested in at all. also applies if she's been in a happy relationship (note that most people who fall for other people do so because they aren't happy, it makes sense).
also also, if you're too persistent in your affections when the above applies^, she'll be switched off probably for good. thats happened to me and i cant think of a better way to descibe it. it really is just like a shut-off switch,
again though, thats really just experience on my part. it could be different for the rest of them.