I've only played TotK so far, quite enjoyed it, though some mechanics did become tedious after a while.
Balder's Gate looks amazing and when I'm done with my Dark Souls Marathon I'm definitely going to pick it up.

Tears of the Kingdom got me hooked!

Metroid Prime Remastered.

Not that I've played many really, but Resident Evil 4 from the ones I have.

FF16 is the best so far.

Octopath Traveler 2 is also another great JRPG this year.

I thought about getting One Piece Odyssey, but maybe I try something out of my JRPG box and get BG3 instead.

The best game I've played from this year is....
...I haven't played a game from this year.

TOTK by far

Aside from the little bit of ToTK I tried and the FFXVI demo.

Not much.

I did though enjoyed my playthroughs of FF1 and FF2 Pixel Remasters on Switch (which came out earlier this year).

Most of my gaming time is done on games released in previous gens and years.

Soulcalibur HD (X360) - 2008
Ratchet and Clank Into the Nexus (PS3) - 2013
Driveclub (PS4) - 2014
Final Fantasy VI (PC) - 2015
Devil May Cry 4 Special Edition (PS4) - 2015
Street Fighter V (PC) - 2016
Dragon Quest VIII (3DS) - 2017
Kingdom Hearts 1.5+2.5 Remix (PS4) - 2017
Mario Kart 8 Deluxe (NS) - 2017
Super Smash Bros Ultimate (NS) - 2018
Pokemon Sword (NS) - 2019
Borderlands GOTY Enhanced (PC) - 2019
Super Mario World (NSO) - 2019
Super Mario 3D All Stars (NS) - 2020

FF XVI. Imo, it was best since FF X.