RolStoppable said:
Jon Gruden has resigned as Raiders coach.
It's odd that a society that believes in rehabilitation of criminals, including rapists and murderers, shows little to no willingness to forgive words that someone used at some earlier point in their life. All too often people get fired or essentially forced to resign by their "own" choice.
Gruden used some bad words in e-mails dating a decade back, but if he were truly a bad guy, he would have already had such a reputation because he's been in the NFL for over 20 years in one form or another. Gruden is not Dan Snyder or some such.
But this is the NFL, a sports organisation where domestic violence is considered a much greater offense than complete and utter disrespect towards the sport itself. Slapping a woman can end careers, but the usage of performance-enhancing substances gets a player about four weeks off instead of a minimum of one year like in other sports. It's not that I am okay with women getting beat up, it's just the magnitude with which different things get punished defies common sense.
Who knows, maybe there's more that will come to light about Gruden. But as it stands now, this development is pretty disappointing. EDIT: So I learned that Gruden got caught due to an investigation of the workplace conduct of the Washington Football Team, a franchise which unsurprisingly has been infested with a more than questionable culture. That's what you get with an owner like Dan Snyder. Gruden had sent e-mails to Bruce Allen; e-mails in which Gruden felt comfortable enough to talk unfiltered and that didn't only concern a couple of e-mails dating back a decade, but a whole bunch of e-mails over the course of several years. Washington has been fined $10 million along with an agreement that owner Dan Snyder stays away from running the team for an unspecified period of time. Gruden was a circumstantial "victim" of the investigation, but given the volume of evidence against him, there has been a clear pattern established and he has no one to blame but himself. And as such, it's fair that he lost his job. He has been better at hiding his true feelings and thoughts than others in the NFL, but the cat is out of the bag now. |
I'm glad that you went back and edited your email after learning more about the situation, but I'm still going to reply to a part of it while acknowledging your awareness of newfound information.
It's one thing for someone, say a young adult, to have things they said as an adolescent/teenager/late teens or early 20s adult come to light, when their collection of life experiences can be chalked up to a lack of maturity, experience and worldly knowledge. You yourself have made a thread about how you were once racist not because you just plain hate black and brown people illogically, but because your life experiences growing up in Germany gave you a poor perception of such people via the media, and you hadn't really met anyone in real life to give you reason to reassess that until the Internet.
Jon Gruden is a grown ass man in the 58th year of his life who has worked with women, people of color and members of the LGBTQ+ community for decades. He has worked in and covered an organization where the primary work force consist of colored people that have made hims tens of millions of dollars. A decade ago, he was a grown ass 48-year-old man, not some knuckleheaded teen with his first Twitter account. He has had plenty of years on this Earth to figure out who he is and what he stands for and believes in. If that's the kind of things he says off-mic, not just one time in a moment of weakness but consciously over the course of years, then that's who he is. It's not someone found recordings of his drunk ramblings; these are emails that he had to consciously take the time to type and press Send. Typing an email should be given even more weight than shooting from the cuff with your mouth.
TL:DR - You can sum it up in two old, but timeless phrases: "You can't teach an old dog new tricks", and "Character is who you are in the dark"