The main advantage PS5 has is launch exclusives like Spiderman and Demon Souls being the highlights. Also a new controller design which has overwhelmingly positive impressions.
That said, numerous hardware comparisons favor Series X. I won’t list them all but it’s unanimous Xbox has better engineered hardware and software features/capabilities. But ultimately to the end user, the new controller and better launch lineup are more noticeable.
It's been pointed out to you already, but the controller is part of the hardware.
So is it numerous or unanimous? Pick.
What's your sources? You've been pushing that narrative for a while.