Until they poop in your hands :D

She's white and I'm black and we're in a pretty white area so I'll be pretty sure if it's mine or not if it's born,

But hey if it comes out pale as day with bright blue eyes and blonde straight hair I'm out of there so fast..

Doesn't matter. Just do it. She might just have a thing for black guys.

I agree with this post entirely. The OP is handling this whole thing very childishly and based on the fact that he even posted his story here and his responses to others, he is clearly not fit to make any real decisions concerning his life yet. Maybe this will be the wake up call you need. It's your mistake and you need to own up to it. You're acting incredibly immature about the whole situation, which is why you're receiving almost no pity from anyone here. I hope she keeps it. Maybe it'll force you to start acting like an adult. I'm baffled that you're 21...

However you end up dealing with the situation I think it's important that you don't let it affect your hopes and dreams especially regarding your education and your career. You absolutely can go to university and deal with a baby. The rest will fall into place as it happens.

Yeah Versus kind of later went back on that after more information.

Also you say I'm childish and Immature, meaning you probably actually haven't read everything, or the full OP.

But lets assume you don't have very good comprehension skills, you call me childish and immature and yet wish for a child to be raised by me? That's logical?

Oh wow ok, well if i misread the OP then sorry, but if I didn't maybe add that in there to clarify.

I know people who had kids at 17/18 and guess what they are far more scuessful in their careers than some that waited till their 30s. It is all about attitude and how you set yourself up with the challenges you have. Age alone is not an issue its the mental maturity of the person.

As for the rest of my post, to summarise, I don't think you can make a decision like this in a few hours (both of you that is), so it is something worth considering. You don't want to regret it later as sometimes this could be your only chance at a kid, you never know.

Stuff you also need to consider, is do you both see each other more than friends at all? or zero chance? if zero chance then I guess what kind of impact it will have on a child with parents seperated, and will she give you access to the child etc...

The child support comments are stupid in general so ignore them. You should pay up for a child you bring into this world.

I'm not against abortion but I think it is a waste to do it because so many people can't even have kids. I would disscuss adoption with her as well potentially, if you both agree you don't want the child. At least the unexpected pegnancy can bring someone joy in the world.

Been pee'd on but never poo!

Evict the thing.

I obvioulsly cannot say. Just mentioning a few second hand happenings within my microcosm. Giving birth sounds pretty harsh though. It has a lot of hype behind it. Seems legit. ;)