ArchangelMadzz said:
WAIT. Halt the congratulations, there's no congratulations to be had here.
I am pulling for the abortion angle, but I don't want to pressure her into the decision.
The main pro about abortion is that if you decide later to have a child you can, at any time. If you have the child and regret it that's pretty much it.
She acknowledges that we shouldn't have the child, and that it would ruin my future prospects and 2 friends who have no emotional attachment shouldn't be in charge of a human being as that's not good for anyone.
But she's still unsure on what she wants to do, so I'll probably get back to this in a few days.
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Lots to think about....
I can tell you that there is still another option. Adoption!
Me and my wife had one child together naturally, and tried to have more. My wife had 7 different miscarriages trying to have more.
Eventually, we have adopted 3 more children. We feel that we were meant to go this route. All 4 of our children are awesome and we love them like crazy.
Point is, there are literally tens of thousands of people waiting to adopt newborn babies throughout the world. You might want to consider doing something bigger than yourself and giving the gift of parentage to a couple in need.
I am not anti-abortion, just want you to add an option to your list.
You have a big decision to make, good luck!