By using this site, you agree to our Privacy Policy and our Terms of Use. Close

Forums - General Discussion - Has anyone dated an older woman?

Fei-Hung on 15 August 2016

When I was 18, I had a 24yr old gf. Sex was amazing, but she wanted a far more serious relationship. She also got a bit funny as I was at college with lots of people around me (mostly girls) whilst her social circle was a lot smaller at work.

Then when i was 21 I went out with a girl 4 years older than me. This one was just straight up too damn ghetto.

It all depends on the individual at the end of the day and what it is you are after.



Around the Network
AsGryffynn on 15 August 2016
Geralt said:
So it seems like no one here dated a girl 7+ years older like me? What an age difference!

Sorry... My current one is around 4 years older, but that's it. It's definitely better than the only relationship I had with a younger girl... I did have a fling with a 31 year old girl, but no dating there. 



Soundwave on 15 August 2016

I've dated younger, but never that much older.

If she's hot, enjoy it for what it is.

Don't get worked up about the age difference either. Be confident.



Cobretti2 on 15 August 2016

Honestly a woman's age doesn't matter.

What matters is your patience and intelligence.

At the end of the day those two things will determine how much you can put up with a a trade off for looks, age and sex.



 

 

Ganoncrotch on 15 August 2016
Ka-pi96 said:
StarOcean said:

To be honest, probably At the time I was still young and naive and she made some very questionable moves on me. Including asking me for dick pics -thankfully I never did anything illegal nor did she get those pictures, but Jesus I was tempted to just because I was a kid and inexperienced. Was she intentially a pedo though? I'm not sure, maybe. She was quite dumb, but then again, that always could've been an act

It wouldn't have been illegal even if you had done something, well for you at least

It would have, if he had sent a dick pic from his phone technically he would be distributing child pornography over the internet.

http://www.businessinsider.com/surprising-things-that-could-make-you-a-sex-offender-2013-10?IR=T

It can actually be a felony charge and while obviously as a younger person this charge doesn't mean too much but it does mean you would be added to the sex offenders list and as such no matter how old you are you would need to go and introduce yourself to neighbours etc and explain what happened when you moved into a new house each time, like I said it's not much when you are 20ish but in 30 years time you have a 50 year old man trying to convince neighbours that he has been on that list from the age of 13, I wouldn't believe him, would you?



Why not check me out on youtube and help me on the way to 2k subs over at www.youtube.com/stormcloudlive

Around the Network
Ganoncrotch on 15 August 2016
Ka-pi96 said:
Ganoncrotch said:

It would have, if he had sent a dick pic from his phone technically he would be distributing child pornography over the internet.

http://www.businessinsider.com/surprising-things-that-could-make-you-a-sex-offender-2013-10?IR=T

It can actually be a felony charge and while obviously as a younger person this charge doesn't mean too much but it does mean you would be added to the sex offenders list and as such no matter how old you are you would need to go and introduce yourself to neighbours etc and explain what happened when you moved into a new house each time, like I said it's not much when you are 20ish but in 30 years time you have a 50 year old man trying to convince neighbours that he has been on that list from the age of 13, I wouldn't believe him, would you?

Well that's pretty stupid. Although it just says 'could be charged' and when there's an older person asking you to send those pictures it's pretty much a 100% guarantee that only the older person will actually be charged with anything.

It means could be charged in the same way when a person downloads an MP3 out of a Youtube video you are breaking the law but are unlikely to be caught for it, but yeah this is just one of those things to keep in mind when you tell your kids not to send anything stupid to their friends, if the image is passed from one phone to other people (spreading around a pic to shame school friends) the charge can be upped to distribution of Child pornograhy which... again, as a young person you can mostly ignore but later in life if trying to get work or move into a new neighbourhood it could really come back and bite you on the ass for something so silly as taking a pic of yourself and sending it in an MMS.

With mobile phones being a thing in almost every kids school bag now this is a charge which very rarely raises its head but when it does the repercussions are life changing for effectively the victim of the whole thing.



Why not check me out on youtube and help me on the way to 2k subs over at www.youtube.com/stormcloudlive

Neodegenerate on 15 August 2016

My wife is 10 years older than I am. Age is one of those things that people put a lot of unnecessary weight on. Outside of obvious situations, it all comes down to the maturity level of the individuals.



Alby_da_Wolf on 15 August 2016
Ganoncrotch said:
Ka-pi96 said:

Well that's pretty stupid. Although it just says 'could be charged' and when there's an older person asking you to send those pictures it's pretty much a 100% guarantee that only the older person will actually be charged with anything.

It means could be charged in the same way when a person downloads an MP3 out of a Youtube video you are breaking the law but are unlikely to be caught for it, but yeah this is just one of those things to keep in mind when you tell your kids not to send anything stupid to their friends, if the image is passed from one phone to other people (spreading around a pic to shame school friends) the charge can be upped to distribution of Child pornograhy which... again, as a young person you can mostly ignore but later in life if trying to get work or move into a new neighbourhood it could really come back and bite you on the ass for something so silly as taking a pic of yourself and sending it in an MMS.

With mobile phones being a thing in almost every kids school bag now this is a charge which very rarely raises its head but when it does the repercussions are life changing for effectively the victim of the whole thing.

And here I thought only Italy and, maybe, USA, had written laws about child porn on the net in such a stupid way to actually damage the minors themselves too...



Stwike him, Centuwion. Stwike him vewy wuffly! (Pontius Pilate, "Life of Brian")
A fart without stink is like a sky without stars.
TGS, Third Grade Shooter: brand new genre invented by Kevin Butler exclusively for Natal WiiToo Kinect. PEW! PEW-PEW-PEW!   


StarOcean on 15 August 2016
hershel_layton said:
StarOcean said:

Well I suppose I was more referring to her. As in I never did anything that would have made our relationship be illegal due to her own pictures of child nudity and such XD

i'm just surprised that:

1) You managed to get a girlfriend at 13

2) Your girlfriend was 18

3) She was actually interested in you

 

I guess she just found me attractive XD and yeah the age gap bothered me as well

But there is more to the story that makes it more weird o.o



hershel_layton on 15 August 2016
StarOcean said:
hershel_layton said:

i'm just surprised that:

1) You managed to get a girlfriend at 13

2) Your girlfriend was 18

3) She was actually interested in you

 

I guess she just found me attractive XD and yeah the age gap bothered me as well

But there is more to the story that makes it more weird o.o

Is it a thread worthy story?



 

-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------

12/22/2016- Made a bet with Ganoncrotch that the first 6 months of 2017 will be worse than 2016. A poll will be made to determine the winner. Loser has to take a picture of them imitating their profile picture.