Naw we just aren't gay.
Or possibly not so imaginative, intelligent or introspective. The reason we have brains for the most part is to explore possibilities in a safe place that doesn't impact on reality and wiegh those inward possibilities when taking action in the real world, this also includes not taking action. I sometimes ponder selling everything I have and buying a remote cabin by a lake in Norway. Why don't I do it? Because I'm able to imagine all the shit that I won't like in that scenario. So your either a liar as the OP stated or an insecure, dimwit afraid of being called gay.