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hershel_layton on 04 June 2016
curl-6 said:
hershel_layton said:

Do you love guns?

Do you eat 40 pounds of bacon daily?

Do you love boobs?

What about guns?

And bacon?

And more boobs?

 

if you said, "yes" to all these questions, then you're a proud American.

Love boobs, not into guns or bacon.

Good enough, you're now a proud American!



 

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hershel_layton on 04 June 2016
Cobretti2 said:
hershel_layton said:

This is something I see often. It's typically easy to stop(i.e before starting or during foreplay), but what if you're balls deep in her/him(gender equality)? You can't just take it out so suddenly. You don't want their butthole/vagina to now suddenly be torn apart.

well obviously you meant to pull it out as whatever speed you deem appropriate, but going back in is the issue. You have to look like Chris Evans if you want to keep going regardless. No one will turn down sex if you're Chris Evans.

in reality at that point this doesn't matter as it probably turn into  person 1 said vs person 2 said scenario. 

Fair point.



 

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onionberry on 04 June 2016

only if one person can make decisions and the other person is unconsciously drunk.



Never on 04 June 2016

If they can't give informed consent then it's rape.



curl-6 on 04 June 2016
hershel_layton said:
curl-6 said:

Love boobs, not into guns or bacon.

Good enough, you're now a proud American!

Yay!

On a serious note though, I haven't drunk to the point of blackout since that incident. I used to do it on a weekly basis back in those days, to self-medicate the anxiety stemming from my autism and because I was depressed. I did a lot of stupid and dangerous shit back then. I'm very lucky to have gotten through it with as little permenant damage as I have.



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Aeolus451 on 04 June 2016

It's more situational than that in my opinion. If a woman is so drunk that she passes out or can be barely stay conscious, she's beyond the point of being able to consent and it would be rape if you tried to have sex with her.

If a woman is tipsy or just drunk but still conscious/aware of her surroundings, she can consent, it's fair game.



zorg1000 on 04 June 2016
curl-6 said:
bigtakilla said:

I think you were set up personally.

That is a possibility.

Has been 4 years since then and I haven't gotten a call saying I have a kid in kindergarten yet, so hopefully I am out of the woods.

thats probably because 3 year olds dont go to kindergarten



When the herd loses its way, the shepard must kill the bull that leads them astray.

curl-6 on 04 June 2016
zorg1000 said:
curl-6 said:

That is a possibility.

Has been 4 years since then and I haven't gotten a call saying I have a kid in kindergarten yet, so hopefully I am out of the woods.

thats probably because 3 year olds dont go to kindergarten

They do here in Australia.



HylianYoshi on 04 June 2016

In the first scenario, the woman may have consented, but she had impaired judgement handling the decision, something which the guy may or may not have realized. If he realized that she was drunk and took advantage of her, then I could see that being considered rape. If not, then maybe the guy wasn't to blame.

Now, for scenario two. In this case, both consented on equal grounds. It's worth noting that the woman asked the man for sex, so if anything she was probably more to blame than the guy. But regardless, it's not rape.

So, I guess it's determined based on motives and whatnot.



bet: lost

Zkuq on 04 June 2016
barneystinson69 said:

If she consented, then no it isn't rape.

This. Unless, of course, the other person didn't understand what they were consenting to. But if you're drunk and consent to something, knowing at the moment what it's about, and later come to regret it, it's not rape but a simple mistake from the consenting person.