JazzB1987 said:
Bofferbrauer said: The problem with pedophilia is that it's exclusivly non-consentual, so there's no one who could live it's sexual orientation without abusing a child. This includes Child pornography, as these children are either forced to do so or doesn't even know what happens to them. I would, however, also rather call it a sexual orientation than a mental disorder. The mental problem that comes with it for a person with pedophilia is to understand you'll never be able to live your sexual orientation, have to live a different life and to hide your actual orientation, which is probably too much pressure for quite a few of them and driving them literally mad. |
The problem I have with this is the following tho.
How do you know if its non-consentual?
What if the child doesnt care? I mean lets assume the kid never saw movies or watched news or whatever and NOONE ever told the child that having sex can be something bad then the kid would not care.
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Someone probably already responded to this. But in the UK at least, sex with anybody under the age of 16 is automatically non-consensual as they are deemed too young to be able to give consent.
Even a 16 year old sleeping with a 15 year old is classed as rape here as the 15 year old (even if a male) is not old enough to given consent.
This is why rape laws need looking at, because to me, this "crime" is nowhere near on the same level as a violent rape. However at the moment, they are one and the same.