There's been a lot of criteria added in order to downplay this game and I'm assuming this is being done because it's supposedly the "next big thing" and Sony hopped on it instead of Microsoft (coming from sales2099 is what led to this assumption).
CoD and GTA were "pretend exclusives" right? Oh, those aren't new IPs lacking a household name.
What about Titanfall? It fits your criteria. Oh, this needs to be a PS vs XB discussion, so it doesn't count....even though "exclusive" means only available on one console, which is what TF was marketed as, thus "pretending" to be exclusive to XBone (PR people at MS said "you'll want to buy an XBone for this game".....even though it's on 2 other platforms)
So, we need to have a completely new IP, that's marketed to either only PS4 or XBone (marketed toward XBone vs 360 vs PC doesn't count), and there's gonna be bundles, exclusive access to betas, and "exclusive" extra content (I put that in quotes because every time there "exclusive content", the other console gets it eventually).
Well, games like that aren't "pretending" to be exclusive to the bundles, betas, and DLC, so in that regard, no, it isn't a "pretend exclusive". At no point is it said that the game itself isn't gonna be on another platform. Just all that extra stuff will be exclusive. I wouldn't get Destiny on Xbone because I just didn't know it wasn't on XBone. I wouldn't get it on XBone because it didn't have all the extra benefits. And as far as the "uninformed gamer"...well, for people on the fence and they're looking forward to this game, the moment you look into preordering this game for PS4, in preparation for getting a PS4, "because I thought it was only on PS4", you'll see the XBone, 360, and PS3 option as well, at every store and online. If you don't even research the game at all and just see signs/ads in stores saying that it's coming soon, you'll see the XBone, 360, and PS3 option as well, at every store and online. You don't have to be a forum goer to know that a game is multiplatform (and not being a forum goer doesn't make you "uninformed" either). Let's just say that little Timmy only has an Xbone and sees Destiny and is in love with it. He sees the PS4 logo at the end and thinks it's only on PS4. He goes to mommy and says "Mooooom. I want that game, but I need a PS4". They go to the store and ask the clerk "Do you have Destiny?" Guess what's gonna be said? "We sure do. For XBone or PS4 (or PS3 or 360)?"
There's nothing "pretend" about Destiny, it just has the potential to be a big hit and if it is, it's gonna affect PS4 better than XBone (and you don't like that, sales). So you're making up a term to downplay the game. Just look, you put it in your sig as well, which has only had anti-PS content since you joined. But, I mean....is there really any hype for this game, right now? I don't see media outlets having a story on it every other day. I'm not seeing it all over Game Informer. This game is operating purely on word of mouth right now, but there's no "Game of the Generation" level talk about it. So why try and undermine it?