Hidden gems, is a bit tricky. For instance, Catherine I wouldn't really include Catherine as hidden gem because it was done by the P3 and P4 team, and was expected to be good. If you're going by games that don't sell I could list a lot.
My criteria is games that were unexpectedly good. But even then it's difficult. For instance I'm not sure whether to include TWEWY. I wouldn't have expected a game by the people who developed chain of memories to do my favorite JRPG. But, I wouldn't have been surprised that Nomura was heavily involved with great music from the dude who did crisis core.
Legend of Hero's Trails to the Sky
Spec Ops the Line
TWEWY
Binary Domain
Lara Croft and the Guardian of Light (Again, I would expect a CD game to be good, but not a game that felt like it was going to be a throwaway).