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Kane1389 on 24 September 2013
Tom3k said:
Kane1389 said:

Yes, but gay males are usually more feminine and ''girly'' (for lack of the better word) and actually feel more comfortable in the company of females. And you missed my point.  I wasnt saying that you are attrated to all other males, but that you are attracted to male gender and thus cant be grossed out by male company.

LOL You should stay away from reality TV. It's bad for you.


Actually, the TV (and whole mainstream media in general) has been kissing LGBT's ass for over a decade now, so if anything, TV is helping your cause



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Cubedramirez on 24 September 2013

If you're asking if I ever looked at a penis and have to pause and think about it, then no.

Quite straight.



Tom3k on 24 September 2013
Kane1389 said:

Actually, the TV (and whole mainstream media in general) has been kissing LGBT's ass for over a decade now, so if anything, TV is helping your cause

Actually I disagree. Just look at reality TV shows and the "gay type" they usually cast in them. 



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man-bear-pig on 24 September 2013

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Cheebee on 24 September 2013
Scisca said:
Tom3k said:
Scisca said:

Now let's not pretend that's not true. I've spent some time this holiday around a gay dude from Italy and even my sister who is very girly felt he was more feminine than she is (yes he was). Not every gay guy is like that, but a fair number is, so don't act so indignant and disbelieving what you see. On top of that almost all gay guys have these characteristic hand movements that normal guys can't even really imitate, cause your moves are too soft and delicate, thus feminine and girly.

That's some serious sterotyping. Nobody said that more "feminine" gay guys don't exist, they do, and they have every right to express themselves as they see fit. But they aren't vast majority within gay community... They don't reflect typical behavior of gay guys... Since there isn't a typical behavior for either gay or straight. We don't get a membership card and a DVD with arm gestures that we need to learn once we "come out". But to say that there aren't as you've said "soft and delicate" straight guys would be also a lie. I've know poeple for whom I would have sworn that they are gay, but they ended up happily married to girls. As much as I hate the term "straight acting" since nobody really acts anything, most gay people "behave" just like everybody else.


So as you say - they exist, the number of girly gays is larger than that of girly straight guys and thus I see nothing surprising in the original quote, nothing that would validate going with: "Uh... Are you serious?"

As to the hand gesture - just in my place of work there are 5 gays and only 1 of them doesn't do that smooth soft movement with his hands even though not a single one of them is the ultra feminine type. Also the way they stand sometimes, their pose, it often clearly indicates they are gay, cause straight guys just don't stand in such a manner. You may believe it or not, but there is this characteristic behaviour that you guys have, doesn't matter if you learn it from a DVD or not :P I'm not saying every single one does that, but the majority - absolutely. I've been dating a bisexual girl for 4 years and she was very much into this whole LGBT stuff, so I've had plenty of time to do my observations and I just see this stuff.

Geez your stereotyping and generalizing is incredible. Seriously. Of course those feminine gays exist, nowhere did I ever claim they didn't. Did I? No. I didn't.

But blatantly claiming -as if it's a fact- that most gays are that way, is simply not true. It's not, and that's a fact. Just because you may have some noticed gays acting that way doesn't mean those were all the gsy guys you ever met/saw. I am gay and I've met a LOT of other gay guys, and most are just as straight looking and acting as every other heterosexual guy. Of course there are girly and very very slightly girly gays, but there are many more that aren't. Please don't confuse your own 'experiences' with facts, especially when they're so wrong. Unless you've asked every male you ever met if they're gay, because I can guarantee you that you've come across -tons- of males who were gay, and you never knew.



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Scisca on 24 September 2013
Cheebee said:
Geez your stereotyping and generalizing is incredible. Seriously. Of course those feminine gays exist, nowhere did I ever claim they didn't. Did I? No. I didn't.

But blatantly claiming -as if it's a fact- that most gays are that way, is simply not true. It's not, and that's a fact. Just because you may have some noticed gays acting that way doesn't mean those were all the gsy guys you ever met/saw. I am gay and I've met a LOT of other gay guys, and most are just as straight looking and acting as every other heterosexual guy. Of course there are girly and very very slightly girly gays, but there are many more that aren't. Please don't confuse your own 'experiences' with facts, especially when they're so wrong. Unless you've asked every male you ever met if they're gay, because I can guarantee you that you've come across -tons- of males who were gay, and you never knew.


The thing is, I have never claimed this. I just acknowledge that they exist, there is a fair amount of them, there are more ultra feminine gays than ultra feminine straight guys and on average they make gay gusy more feminine than regular guys :P Apart from that, the majority of other non-ultra feminine gays also has behaviours that aren't exactly considered "manly-manly" and when you learn to see them, it's actually quite easy to judge if a guy is gay or not in most cases (not always, but in most cases). I'm talking about little things that most regular guys probably don't notice or ignore. Maybe you just don't realise that anymore cause it's stuff that's normal and natural to you, but having spent a lot of time among gays as an "outsider" ( ;) ) I actually see this stuff easily, these little details in behaviour that are hard to describe, but sure as hell do exist and in my book can't be considered manly.



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Tom3k on 24 September 2013
Scisca said:

The thing is, I have never claimed this. I just acknowledge that they exist, there is a fair amount of them, there are more ultra feminine gays than ultra feminine straight guys and on average they make gay gusy more feminine than regular guys :P Apart from that, the majority of other non-ultra feminine gays also has behaviours that aren't exactly considered "manly-manly" and when you learn to see them, it's actually quite easy to judge if a guy is gay or not in most cases (not always, but in most cases). I'm talking about little things that most regular guys probably don't notice or ignore. Maybe you just don't realise that anymore cause it's stuff that's normal and natural to you, but having spent a lot of time among gays as an "outsider" ( ;) ) I actually see this stuff easily, these little details in behaviour that are hard to describe, but sure as hell do exist and in my book can't be considered manly.

For the 1st part... Huh? Considering that under 5% of general population is gay, it's statistically improbable that there's more "feminine" gay guys than "feminine" straight guys. And following your logic, there aren't straight people since everybody is on average gay....

For the 2nd part... Again, Huh? We have behaviours that aren't considered "manly-manly"? Like what? Funny though that football players are "gayer", than any gay person that i know... Yet they are considered to be epitome for "manly" LOL



Seece on 25 September 2013

Another gay thread another load of dumb generalisations and passive aggressive insecure homophobia!

Being around gay males shouldn't make you feel uneasy, if it does then IMO you have issues with your own sexuality.

Also, leave it to straight guys that don't like gays to tell us "the majority are feminine ect" No, leave that to the people that actually socialise with gay people.

The answer is, most are not. How would you know tho? You have no idea if any of the straight acting guys you come across are actually gay.



 

nero on 25 September 2013

G force :)