Are you straight, Bi, or gay? Now with *slightly* nsfw pics. :)

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Cheebee said:
Geez your stereotyping and generalizing is incredible. Seriously. Of course those feminine gays exist, nowhere did I ever claim they didn't. Did I? No. I didn't.

But blatantly claiming -as if it's a fact- that most gays are that way, is simply not true. It's not, and that's a fact. Just because you may have some noticed gays acting that way doesn't mean those were all the gsy guys you ever met/saw. I am gay and I've met a LOT of other gay guys, and most are just as straight looking and acting as every other heterosexual guy. Of course there are girly and very very slightly girly gays, but there are many more that aren't. Please don't confuse your own 'experiences' with facts, especially when they're so wrong. Unless you've asked every male you ever met if they're gay, because I can guarantee you that you've come across -tons- of males who were gay, and you never knew.

The thing is, I have never claimed this. I just acknowledge that they exist, there is a fair amount of them, there are more ultra feminine gays than ultra feminine straight guys and on average they make gay gusy more feminine than regular guys :P Apart from that, the majority of other non-ultra feminine gays also has behaviours that aren't exactly considered "manly-manly" and when you learn to see them, it's actually quite easy to judge if a guy is gay or not in most cases (not always, but in most cases). I'm talking about little things that most regular guys probably don't notice or ignore. Maybe you just don't realise that anymore cause it's stuff that's normal and natural to you, but having spent a lot of time among gays as an "outsider" ( ;) ) I actually see this stuff easily, these little details in behaviour that are hard to describe, but sure as hell do exist and in my book can't be considered manly.