OP, that's the kind of response I dealt with all throughout college since I wanted a PS3 and wasn't willing to make the jump from Xbox to 360 for a variety of reasons. It wasn't from fandom though, it was peer pressure to get the same system as everybody else because Call of Duty was so popular that it was practically the only game everyone had. Why get it on another console? Everyone has a 360. PS3 is too expensive. That last part is where the denial support for a consumer product comes in because I would mention XBL subscription and that 360 is actually the most expensive console for online players. Took a long time for some friends to start buying PS3s, but we were in college, I didn't even have the money for it till the year after graduation.
People are against getting a Wii U because of the situation with the Wii, not being in line with what might be a more powerful generation. People care about power, and their current systems aren't too far behind the Wii U in the first place and they have a lot of friends on their current console already. Not everyone is a willing early adopter, especially without a large enough confirmed friend base. As far as the adult thing goes, if a console has an image of being for younger people, which the Wii created heavily for Nintendo, then its a hard sell for a grown person who isn't into casual games.