I dont think the problem lies in the Wii U in this situation...a lot of the hate i see stems from the fact that the Wii U is not mega powerful, or rather, isn't as much of a leap as last gen. A lot of people have said this but no one seems to listen: graphics are reaching a plateau. Sure, you can always get better but the improvements are becoming more and more "under the hood" improvements that a lot of people wont notice. If I have to live with Uncharted 3 quality graphics for the rest of my life, I will be fine with that. I dont see how you can look at a game like that and complain. Platform holders should be focusing on ways to decrease development cost and improve gameplay, this rampant obsession with pretty graphics is getting ridiculous.
The media is feeding off of this attitude and amplifying it even further. The reason we don't hear what the gamers think more often is:
a. because a lot of gamers think what they are told to think so it would be redundant
b. the contrasting opinions arent as popular and/or sensationalist
c. the gaming media are technically gamers so that question is pseudo-moot
As for why you dont see hope for good things: you do! there is a lot of hope surrounding the games. This is what irks me. The media comes out saying great things about all the games coming to Wii U and then turns around and complains about the Wii U. Last time I checked, the games were the reason I bought a system, they are the most important thing. If you dont like the games (which i still find hard to believe) and that is your reason for not wanting a wii u, fair enough. If the only reason you dont want a wii u is because you dont like the system then take a step back and look at why you are gaming. If it for the pretty pictures, try movies or anime. If it is for the games and the gameplay than say, "ya no, eff the media, i am going to make my own opinion and base my purchases off of that, not what the media tells me.
-that is my best attempt at answering the OP...i found it kinda difficult to find a specific question though