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hsrob on 17 August 2012
dallas said:
hsrob said:
Why are you angry?


Some of it is from dealing with literally crazy family members, but a good part of it is by default I mean ive been pissy-angry for a while and have thought that this is a good way to live or be.  This metrosexual thing is working though, I'm not agressive at all anymore, and when I have a beef I talk about it instead of yell or whatever.  

 

I realize that I might need to see a counselor or whatever for this bc being an angry person can just suck.  I just lost a girlfriend bc of this where we were planning on having sex later on in the day and I was in a really creative mood and such...... She had been texting me that she wanted me to put her in handcuffs and would let me hold her horny ass down.  I said that I'd rape her and she actually said that it would be ok lol.  But then I said that I'll let the demon come out and she just hung up and ended it right there I'm guessing bc she knows my agressive nature and got worried.  I need to quit being this way bc my women shouldn't have to feel this way around me.  I'd rather be quiter and less agressive than what is "needed" than more, I mean it would be better to err on the side of caution and all that.

 

The metrosexual thing is working though for now.... Thankfully?  I also meditate which helps, but it doesn't do enough IMHO 

If this is working for you then that is great but the question for me is whether this is actually making you feel less angry or you are just getting better at masking it.  If by being 'metro' you are actually getting better at dealing with and channeling your anger it sounds like you are on a good path, but if you are simply hiding what you really feel behind more socially acceptable behaviour that's only a short term solution.



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mysticwolf on 17 August 2012

Just... Don't try to stray too far away from your natural personality. Unless maybe you have no friends? Maybe then.



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kain_kusanagi on 17 August 2012
Soleron said:

Edit: If this is a serious thread, changing who you are is impossible. You'll just be stressed out all the time you're pretending to be something.


Changing behavior is not the same as changing who you are. People with anger issues can learn to control their anger, over-eaters can learn how to eat right, etc.



Slimebeast on 17 August 2012
dallas said:
hsrob said:
Why are you angry?


Some of it is from dealing with literally crazy family members, but a good part of it is by default I mean ive been pissy-angry for a while and have thought that this is a good way to live or be.  This metrosexual thing is working though, I'm not agressive at all anymore, and when I have a beef I talk about it instead of yell or whatever.  

 

I realize that I might need to see a counselor or whatever for this bc being an angry person can just suck.  I just lost a girlfriend bc of this where we were planning on having sex later on in the day and I was in a really creative mood and such...... She had been texting me that she wanted me to put her in handcuffs and would let me hold her horny ass down.  I said that I'd rape her and she actually said that it would be ok lol.  But then I said that I'll let the demon come out and she just hung up and ended it right there I'm guessing bc she knows my agressive nature and got worried.  I need to quit being this way bc my women shouldn't have to feel this way around me.  I'd rather be quiter and less agressive than what is "needed" than more, I mean it would be better to err on the side of caution and all that.

lol

Funniest thing I've read in a while.



NiKKoM on 17 August 2012

Just don't turn emo...



 

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binary solo on 17 August 2012

You've got to work on developing qualities that you want to convey, not on doing superficial stuff like clothes and personal grooming.

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amp316 on 17 August 2012

To heck with that!

Be a manly man. It's worked for me all of these years.



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Troll_Whisperer on 17 August 2012

You should wank more often, it'll help lower your aggressiveness.



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MrBubbles on 17 August 2012

i had an actual beard at 14



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sperrico87 on 17 August 2012

All I can think of when reading this thread topic is that "Metro-sexuals" episode of South Park (if you haven't seen it, go watch it), and therefore, I think it's a terrible decision and you should find something more productive to do with your extra time and energy, like charity work, volunteering, or civics.