I've always had a bit of an aggressive kind of personality, and there is really no great reason for it, people have told me that my testosterone level is way too high, I've been able to grow a beard since I was a senior in HS.  So, the only way that I know to stop doing that is to replace the aggressive behavior with something else, and I'm replacing with a metrosexual persona.  I'm paying waaaayyy more attention to grooming and wearing nicer clothes now.  I'm also acting more subdued more low key, and I think that this is the best way to be in mixed company but I've noticed that when I'm out with the guys, I'll still be my old self and that's just fine.  Any thoughts on this?

Edit: If this is a serious thread, changing who you are is impossible. You'll just be stressed out all the time you're pretending to be something.

Persona alterations won't effect anger levels. You'll just be an angry metrosexual.

Trust me. I've dealt with anger.

Nothing scarier than an angry person with repression. Be yourself, learn to channel your anger.

What Mr Khan said about changing Persona should strike a point. It won't help with anger if that's what you're looking for.

Though it's nice to see that you are stepping out of this stupid definition that society (Western Society I might add) has put on men!

meditate or something. i have no clue about that but shouldn't that help you a lot with your "problems"?

Why are you angry?

Some of it is from dealing with literally crazy family members, but a good part of it is by default I mean ive been pissy-angry for a while and have thought that this is a good way to live or be.  This metrosexual thing is working though, I'm not agressive at all anymore, and when I have a beef I talk about it instead of yell or whatever.  

I realize that I might need to see a counselor or whatever for this bc being an angry person can just suck.  I just lost a girlfriend bc of this where we were planning on having sex later on in the day and I was in a really creative mood and such...... She had been texting me that she wanted me to put her in handcuffs and would let me hold her horny ass down.  I said that I'd rape her and she actually said that it would be ok lol.  But then I said that I'll let the demon come out and she just hung up and ended it right there I'm guessing bc she knows my agressive nature and got worried.  I need to quit being this way bc my women shouldn't have to feel this way around me.  I'd rather be quiter and less agressive than what is "needed" than more, I mean it would be better to err on the side of caution and all that.

The metrosexual thing is working though for now.... Thankfully?  I also meditate which helps, but it doesn't do enough IMHO 

This. 

First hand experience. Tried it, never going back. 

Damn dude, that really sucks.