Jay520 said:
Don't you think it would be better to give everyone the oppurtunity to prove that they can respond to peaceful words? Rather than being blunt or aggressive to them just because your past debaters were shitheads?
I find it very interesting that you say when you were sensitive & peaceful, that it got you no where. However, in this very thread, you've witnessed and acknowledged that sensitivity & peacefulness trumps bluntness & aggressiveness even when the message is the same. If people respond logically to Ricky's words and not yours, doesn't that prove that you're WORSE off by being blunt? Doesn't peaceful words seem to elicit more logical response then aggressive? (based off this thread)
Makes me wonder A.) Where you ever as peaceful as you say you were? B.) Do you prefer to elicit a strong, passionate response (like the one's you say you've recently been getting), or an actual logical response (like the responses to Ricky), and C.) Who were these people that you communicated with for the "better part of a decade", who has determined your pre-impressions of people today? |
Of course I think it would be better, but history has taught me that tact doesn't get you anywhere when dealing with a collective group that falls back on the "it's faith, deal with it" argument every time they've been shown beyond a reasonable doubt that they're wrong. the only way to make the world see how dated religious beliefs are and move on from them is to make it clear that such behaviour is not really acceptable, at least not when there are millions of people worldwide doing all they can to inject religious beliefs and attitudes into politics, education, and other aspects of the world that the spiritual has no place.
This thread has not gotten us anywhere. While people have mostly been pretty civil, there's still a metric tonne of faulty logic being thrown around on top of the pile of poor debate skills. also, 'based on this thread' means nothing. I've written dozens of essays and papers for school and in debate articles online explaining in an even MORE objective and detached ways that religion makes no sense (not talking about it being me who didn't believe, simply laying down the facts and counter facts to come to a conclision, the way a debate SHOULD work), and that didn't do anything, just got more of the same faulty logic and 'don't judge me based on my religion' and 'I have a right to have faith' kneejerk reactions we get the world over when they're backed into a corner. 'proving' something means at least some sort of consistency, if anything, this thread has only proven that you can't have a rational argument with those who believe in god (at least on the subject on whether God exists or not, or what religion is right).
I do prefer to elicit a strong, passionate response if only to get people to put their best foot forward rather than just spouting nonsense. The places I used to discuss this was in school (debate club, law class, philosophy class, history class etc), amongst my friends (all of which are known to be very intelligent), with my ex girlfriend (who is a nurse and very intelligent, aside from her faulty logic when it comes to religion), amongst others online, and even on other forums, and I always, ALWAYS get the same responses: a wave of people insisting that they're allowed to have faith, or that you can't prove god exists so we shouldn't bother. The only people I've ever had a decent debate with were my friends...who are all atheists and have come up with more logical, rational arguments in favor of religion than any fundamentalist or other religious type I've ever met.
so yes, I've spent a lot of time being civil, but unless you're Ghandi, peace does not equal progress.
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