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scented candles would be nice though. it kinda smells in here sometimes =P too much testosterone maybe, lol



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d21lewis said:
rutea7 said:
 


Story driven games for me. I started by playing platform and fighting games but at the first taste of final fantasy i was hooked into rpgs and started playing a lot more and looking for more games of that genre. i think for girls it's very important to be playing an interesting story, with interesting characters.

i dont know how you'd market that to women though, a commercial centered around story plot or characters? i dont think that would grab the attention. the only way might be hands on experience with the game but you dont see many girls trying games in public unless they want to try dance central or something. a girl wouldnt grab a remote for the first time in a public place and try mechanics she never tried before cause she's afraid she'll suck in public.

most girls who didnt start playing videogames when they were kids start playing like your friend. they watched a boyfriend or a brother play, got hooked to the story and didnt want to depend on the other to play it through.

i never played cooking mama... lets keep it that way.

*bolded*  I'm trying my damndest to take the high road on this one......

Anyway, I have three little sisters.  Two of them are simply phenomenal at video games (one's a third grade teacher and the other is in school to be an LPN).  The third is working in a grocery store.  In my particular brand of research--which is no research at all--girls who play video games succeed in life and girls who don't end up working at a grocery store.  The facts don't lie.

I don't think there needs to be special marketing of games towards women.  As long as companies make good games, they'll find their way to gamers.  All they have to do is promote these games where women will actually find out about them like how they show video games during pro wrestling so that guys will know about them.  Something as simple as showing a girl playing a game and smiling (like how they did with Brain Age or Just Dance) would go a long way.  More and more females are playing games these days and as far as I know, your money is just as green as mine (unless you live in some foreign country where the money is blue or grey or something).  Not marketing in a way that women become aware of a good game is just leaving money on the table.


it should be marketed but how? maybe getting a celebrity that atracts girls of a certain age to endorse the game? i see little girls with hanna montana PSPs around, it sells hardware might sell games as well



rutea7 said:
 


it should be marketed but how? maybe getting a celebrity that atracts girls of a certain age to endorse the game? i see little girls with hanna montana PSPs around, it sells hardware might sell games as well

Yeah, my little girl has a Hannah Montana PSP and a pink DS.  I think it had more to do with the color of the console than her being a fan of Hanna Montana, though (trying to see how many different ways I can spell Hana.).  I don't think companies market to guys with some sort of celebrity, either.  I mean, an NBA game may sell because of Michael Jordan's endorsement but that's because we wanted to play an NBA game that featured Michael Jordon.  I don't think Brad Pitt or Daniel Radcliffe are going to go a long way when it comes to convincing me that I'm going to have fun with a game.  Video games are different from other forms of entertainment because it all comes down to fun.  No particular actor like in TV/Movies and no particular writer like with books is going to be enough to convince us to part with our money.  It's all about the experience.

Companies need to come up with a way to show females that the game they want to sell is going to be fun for a female audience.  From this thread, I see that you guys seem to be really into RPG's and solo gaming experiences.  Maybe they should advertise Mass Effect 3 during NFL Football as a kick ass war game--and then advertise Mass Effect 3 during The View (sorry.  Having a hard time thinking of a female oriented show.) as a story heavy romance.  Just use different techniques for different audiences.  If the new Tomb Raider ad shows Lara as a strong female role model and shows that the gameplay revolves more around thinking that shooting guns, that's a good thing, right?

It's as simple as finding out which part of your game will appeal to women and then selling them on that part of the game.  Or just make a universally appealing game like Mario Kart and let boys and girls play together.  Either or.

 

--And once again, a one or two sentence reply has prompted me to write an essay.  Do I just like the sound of my own voice!?



d21lewis said:
rutea7 said:
 


it should be marketed but how? maybe getting a celebrity that atracts girls of a certain age to endorse the game? i see little girls with hanna montana PSPs around, it sells hardware might sell games as well

Yeah, my little girl has a Hannah Montana PSP and a pink DS.  I think it had more to do with the color of the console than her being a fan of Hanna Montana, though (trying to see how many different ways I can spell Hana.).  I don't think companies market to guys with some sort of celebrity, either.  I mean, an NBA game may sell because of Michael Jordan's endorsement but that's because we wanted to play an NBA game that featured Michael Jordon.  I don't think Brad Pitt or Daniel Radcliffe are going to go a long way when it comes to convincing me that I'm going to have fun with a game.  Video games are different from other forms of entertainment because it all comes down to fun.  No particular actor like in TV/Movies and no particular writer like with books is going to be enough to convince us to part with our money.  It's all about the experience.

Companies need to come up with a way to show females that the game they want to sell is going to be fun for a female audience.  From this thread, I see that you guys seem to be really into RPG's and solo gaming experiences.  Maybe they should advertise Mass Effect 3 during NFL Football as a kick ass war game--and then advertise Mass Effect 3 during The View (sorry.  Having a hard time thinking of a female oriented show.) as a story heavy romance.  Just use different techniques for different audiences.  If the new Tomb Raider ad shows Lara as a strong female role model and shows that the gameplay revolves more around thinking that shooting guns, that's a good thing, right?

It's as simple as finding out which part of your game will appeal to women and then selling them on that part of the game.  Or just make a universally appealing game like Mario Kart and let boys and girls play together.  Either or.

 

--And once again, a one or two sentence reply has prompted me to write an essay.  Do I just like the sound of my own voice!?

if you want a girl to start gaming for real, and not become just a casual gamer you have more chances before she enters college. young girls, especially in the US, from what i gather are very obsessed with young celebrities, it's sad i know.

after they reach a certain age and enter college it's still possible but it'll be much more difficult to make gaming one of her hobbies. i dont have gamer friends who are girls and my guy friends are much more casual gamers than me. i can tell you that girls past 18-20 that i know dont get my hobby, they cannot fathom spending more than 30 minutes in front of a game even if its a party game. it's like they have ADD or something.



d21lewis said:
spiffiness said:
d21lewis said:


I keep expecting you girls to own a DS and a Wii and you guys always knock me for a loop!

I'm guessing that most of the girls who are actually into games enough to come onto vgchartz aren't your typical "girl gamer".

Understandable.  But what good is carrying a pocketbook if you don't carry a portable gaming system?  Sometimes, I wish I were a girl just so I can carry a purse!  You just don't know how good you have it.

But you can carry one too! It's called a man-purse :)

"Nope you didn't play it" or "Nope it wasn't awesome"?  One weekend with me and my people and you'll be hooked.  Get your hands on Dance Central and Fruit Ninja, then get back to me.

Nope I haven't played it. Most of my friends and colleagues have PS3 and those that do have Xbox either don't have enough room in their apartment, live too far away, and/or don't have kinect.

Becoming harder and harder in this online era.  I never knew so many chicks (you chicks don't mind being called chicks, do you?) were into JRPG's, though.  Who woulda guessed?

Well there's still games like L4D, Dungeon Siege, and Little Big Planet and I don't think solo games are going anywhere, so I'm not too sure what you mean by harder. I'm actually not into JRPGs as much any more. I'll play Final Fantasy and maybe Tales and that's about it. I tried playing some PS2 era JRPGs lately and just couldn't do it. The dialogue tends to make me cringe and the characters generally fit into the archetypes that you see over and over again from the Japanese. I've moved on to more Western RPGs nowadays.

-What is your opinion of Cooking Mama? Is she the greatest female role model in all of gaming?
Mostly indifferent towards her. Greatest role model? Not if I can cook better than she can.... LOL Bonus points if you get that!

Obviously, you have no idea who you're dealing with.  I've got Cooking Mama, Cooking Mama 2, AND Gardening Mama!  "Even better than Mama!"

Wow. I didn't even know there was a Gardening Mama. Congrats on getting the reference though LOL.

I hate you. 

You know what Yoda said... so just give in and join the Dark Side! :)

*Jaw drops*  You know too much.  You may have to be eliminated. 

O_o

 

 

Rutea, I'm totally the opposite in terms of knowing gamers. I pretty much grew up with my girl friends and they tend to be at least a little geeky and many have family members who are avid gamers so they are more open to gaming with me. I've played Onimusha, Little Big Planet, Quake 2, Warcraft 2, Starcraft, WoW, Uncharted 2, and other games with my girl friends. And the guys I know, well, I work at a game developer, so I think you can guess the answer to that LOL.

d21lewis, I think you've contradicted yourself lol. You said, "I don't think there needs to be special marketing of games towards women." and then "Companies need to come up with a way to show females that the game they want to sell is going to be fun for a female audience." But yeah, I definitely think publishers should do more to entice women to play their core games both in placement and content of advertising. However, (and this ties in somewhat to my previous paragraph) there's an issue with receptiveness of the audience. How willing is the average woman to pick up a core game and try it out for herself? Despite any additional emphasis on story and character like a drama movie, I think there's some stigma attached to playing video games.



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Sorry I'm not gaming much at the moment so not on here very often right now

Love the idea of the thread though and totally support it, If I had more time I would join in, once the rugby world cup is done I will spend more time here (I have a history supporting the sport and am a big fan, but the cup ends near the finish of october, so I'll be back then)

Absolutely stoked about the FFX HD announcement at tgs too (sorry had to say it) now just waiting for Bayonetta 2 to be announced

and yes, it seems we girls do love our JRPG's, I certainly do as do the few girls I know who play games (most off this site)



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d21lewis said:
Joelcool7 said:

There's no excuse for the lack of female users on VGChartz. There are more and more female gamers each year , I know just from going to PAX. Three years ago girls were about 5% of the people at PAX, last year up to about 10% this year about 17-20%. Fact is game companies are noticing the trend and are capitalizing on the market.

So why aren't their girls on VGChartz and other gaming forums? Because all the nerds and members of such forums are so desperate to talk to a girl that they over whelm the few girls who come on. Then the guy users not only on VGChartz but other forum's make lewd comments about how girls are sexy or bitches etc...etc...

I can't talk personal experience because I'm a guy. But I know girls who won't even play X-Box Live anymore because every time they go on they get dozens of friend requests and get hit on constantly if they use their headsets. Now most girls I know have names on Live that you can't tell if their female and they don't chat with headsets outside of private convo's because they don't want guys knowing they are girls.

Even some of the famous girls of VGChartz like vgchartzgirl have been driven away. In fact just look at how many friends she has on her list compared to me for example? She has over 4,000 I have less then a hundred. Its that kind of stuff that I'm guessing keeps girls away.

Honestly its like a meat market when ever a girl posts. Guys go nutz, its sort of sad because we should be gentleman and chivalrous not degenerate scum bags. I'm sure if guys stopped hitting on every girl who joins VGChartz, if the lewd comments stopped and girls were treated like every other gamer. Then I'm sure we'd have a ton more.

In fact I'm guessing alot of girls follow these forums and don't post because while their interested in the topics and convo's they probably don't want to deal with all the hitting on and harrasment.

Of course I'm not a girl, but that's why most of my female friends don't go on gaming forums or XboxLive. Its not a problem just here on VGChartz its the male gaming community in general!

Are we thnking of the same VGChartzgirl?  The VGChartz girl I remember hacked the site on a few occasions and sent a friend request to every single active member on the site at the time.  Then she bragged about how easy it was!

And look at members like Lolita (our longest female member, I think), Onna76, Nintendofangirl, slick trick (G0d, she was hot!), and trashleg.  I don't know about other sites but I don't think that any of us treated them weird.  I mean, it's not like any of us will ever meet any of them in person.  They live in other cities--often times, entirely different countries!  My penis just can't reach that far!  It was the girls (who were sometimes, guys) like P_Chan, Gballzack, Girl Gamer Elite, and a couple of others.  The latter few seemed to really enjoy talking about nothing but sex (GGE even PM'd me some Kitty-Porn---featuring cat girls!).  They got a lot of attention as a result and they gave girl members a bad name.

But like I said in an earlier post, all a female gamer has to do to be respected on this site is post in the topics that interest them and have some idea what they're talking about.  This is a gaming/social site.  It's not Love Connection.  It's not that serious.


Huh wondered why I had her on my friends list lol! Did not know that about VGChartzGirl then again I wasn't as active back then as I am now! I wonder why she wasn't banned if she hacked the site? Wouldn't that get you a permaban?

I mentioned specifically other forums because the lack of girls on gaming forums is not unique to VGChartz, there haven't been many girls on any of the forums I have ever been a member of. Notice I mentioned X-Box Live because I actually know girls who won't talk on Mic's and changed their Live accounts to hide the fact they are girls.

As for the comments on VGChartz, they are much better then some other forums but if you follow off-topic or go in the NSFW section. But I gotta admit VGChartz is better then most sites and gaming communities. But again I am not a girl so I dunno if half of the hit ons that occur are flattering or offensive.

I have tried to get female friends on gaming forums and they usually say they don't want to get hit on and stuff. These same friends don't use Mic's on Live and such. Its just male gamers tend to come on strong when they see female gamers.

Man you were PM'd kitty porn, thats screwed up. Also the sexual talk from those female members probably contributed to other girls not joining.

Like you said a girl should and is usually able to post her opinion and contribute to the site. I think we have some very respectable female users even though we don't have all that many.

I dunno I should try again to get some girls on VGChartz, they write it off without even checking it out. Which I bet alot of girls do, that and those who don't probably read articles and watch but don't post.

But there is no lack of girl gamers, PAX was full of them and I don't buy the fact that these girl's are less gamers and like to talk about games less then we do. A ton of them were in cosplay and I met some real dedicated female gamers, which I don't see on VGChartz or other gaming forums. So there has to be a reason these dedicated female gamers aren't here or other forums, something is keeping them away and I'm just pointing at the logical things that might be preventing girls from signing up!



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spiffiness said:
d21lewis said:
spiffiness said:
d21lewis said:

I'm guessing that most of the girls who are actually into games enough to come onto vgchartz aren't your typical "girl gamer".

You've got a point, there.....

But you can carry one too! It's called a man-purse :)

It would be too hard to find one that goes with my hypothetical man-heels and man-lipstick.....or my man-parts.  No man-purse for me.

Nope I haven't played it. Most of my friends and colleagues have PS3 and those that do have Xbox either don't have enough room in their apartment, live too far away, and/or don't have kinect.

I guess I can forgive you, then.

Well there's still games like L4D, Dungeon Siege, and Little Big Planet and I don't think solo games are going anywhere, so I'm not too sure what you mean by harder. I'm actually not into JRPGs as much any more. I'll play Final Fantasy and maybe Tales and that's about it. I tried playing some PS2 era JRPGs lately and just couldn't do it. The dialogue tends to make me cringe and the characters generally fit into the archetypes that you see over and over again from the Japanese. I've moved on to more Western RPGs nowadays.

Just that the focus of many games is the online mode.  Even some of the games you mentioned.  L4D is very online focussed.  So is LBP--everytime I play I usually end up in a 4-player game.  Some games are even gimping the single player and hoping that the multi-player gives the game value.  Hey, changing the subject--give Valkyria Chronicles a try.  It's dirt cheap and its very addictive.  It's not your typical JRPG but I bet you love it.

Wow. I didn't even know there was a Gardening Mama. Congrats on getting the reference though LOL.

:)

I hate you. 

You know what Yoda said... so just give in and join the Dark Side! :)

I've been with "The Dark Side" since '08!  At last, the circle is complete.


O_o

 

 

 

d21lewis, I think you've contradicted yourself lol. You said, "I don't think there needs to be special marketing of games towards women." and then "Companies need to come up with a way to show females that the game they want to sell is going to be fun for a female audience." But yeah, I definitely think publishers should do more to entice women to play their core games both in placement and content of advertising. However, (and this ties in somewhat to my previous paragraph) there's an issue with receptiveness of the audience. How willing is the average woman to pick up a core game and try it out for herself? Despite any additional emphasis on story and character like a drama movie, I think there's some stigma attached to playing video games.


Lady, I'm a walking contradiction (How bad?  I'm not even walking right now.  I'mm crawling!). But really, my change of opinion just came as a response to Rutea's question.  I tried to brainstorm a solution.  Yeah, there's still a stigma but as time goes on, technology improves, and video games continue to grow more and more popular, I think that we'll soon be at a time where video games are as respected as movies, music, and books.  A man can dream, right?

*edit* responded from my phone yesterday.  Now I'm on my PC!



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Pics are your not really a female. lol