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padib said:
Areym said:
There's no guarantee that the first person you get married to will be your soul mate forever. If, I'm not mistaken, 50% of married couples divorce. I have no source as I heard it about a year through the radio. Anyways, I'm not sure what your views on divorce are but it's safe to say most people see it as a common practice. At the end of the day, saving yourself until after marriage is pointless. Sex is a natural thing, the more fuzz you created around it, its practices and when God thinks it's the right time to do it only creates more curiosity in young lovers. All that needs to be said is that you need to have protection every single time. And the masturbation thing is just stupid. Are we just suppose to ignore our natural urges? Those are the kind of people who end up raping. You can do as you like, but the waiting thing is unnecessary in this day in age. We aren't little kids asking what our wee-wees and hoo-has are for anymore.

Dude, you're a dick. I just mentioned in a prior post that I was abstaining so this point is a direct insult at me. I mean, it's easy to tell people "don't tell others what to do" (@pezus). If you're going to take that stance at least have the decency not to judge people who have different practices/opinions and insinuating that they're at risk of become rapists.

You people are just bloody hypocrites.


You aren't the king of the freaking thread, don't take my opinions so seriously, you little baby. I don't care if you got the healthiest liver in the world or whatever golden body you claim to have, I didn't go through every freaking post so I could make sure not to piss somebody off. That point wasn't meant towards anybody. I'm simply stating that when you taboo shit from kids when they are young, as soon as they hit 18, they will go batshit crazy do all the their parents forbid for whatever reason, even if they only meant good for the children. You can't cover the world with one finger. So calm down first of all. I admit it was a bit crude but I tried not to put anybody on blast, it was just an exagerrated consequence of putting natural things on taboo.

Quit being so self-centered, adonis.



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padib said:

@Balzamon No normal person would believe that so fuck him (if he's not actually trolling) and fuck other people who think like that as they are dumb or just ignorant. Also, read my last post again I edited it to answer your other important questions.

You should really be careful, 'cause such language can definately get you banned.



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Areym said:

There's no guarantee that the first person you get married to will be your soul mate forever. (1)If, I'm not mistaken, 50% of married couples divorce. I have no source as I heard it about a year through the radio. Anyways, I'm not sure what your views on divorce are but it's safe to say most people see it as a common practice. At the end of the day, saving yourself until after marriage is pointless. Sex is a natural thing, the more fuzz you created around it, its practices and when God thinks it's the right time to do it only creates more curiosity in young lovers. All that needs to be said is that you need to have protection every single time. (2)And the masturbation thing is just stupid. Are we just suppose to ignore our natural urges? Those are the kind of people who end up raping. You can do as you like, but the waiting thing is unnecessary in this day in age. We aren't little kids asking what our wee-wees and hoo-has are for anymore.

(3)Also, demi and selena are the worst examples imaginable. They will end up like britney and rihanna in a few years. You are listening to Disney radio way too much buddy.

1- Yes, 52% of married Americans end in a divorce. This isn't true for almost every other country in the world (aside from some European nations, even they aren't so high). So no, most people don't see it as common practice; it is simply part of the American culture and quite frankly one of the most disgusting things to me.

2- Are you seriously linking masturbation to severe mental disabilities? I'm not trying to flame but that is one of the most ignorant statement I've read in this thread.

3- Out of your entire post, this is the only part that I agree with.



brendude13 said:
padib said:

I have a problem with people who go around having sex with just anyone and here's why. For those of us who are looking for faithful pleasure (me, wfz, tads12), you guys (takemetothehospital) are stealing away the virginity from these girls and leaving us with the scraps.

Now don't get me wrong, I will love my soulmate no matter her past, but you will have left a dark spot there especially if you're being dishonest with her. If you're honest and she's open to it, you're helping her/him to spoil their purity. That's bad for us. You think it's okay. Well, a cocaine addict is open to having cocaine, it doesn't make it good for them.

:D Great, now you get to hear what I actually think. Yes, it's a personal decision, but yes you're screwing it up for us... Everytime you pop a cherry I want you to know how much it pisses me off.

Here is why you pissed me off:

Takemetothehospital said:

I'm glad i started young cause I've popped my fair share of cherries. The younger they are the more appreciative. 21+ girls are way too experienced these days. It's just not the same anymore hey. You're forced to work way harder in the bedroom....

I know what you mean, you don't want to order your first Big-Mac and find someone's taken a big fucking bite out of it.

While I don't agree with Ps3, I don't agree with that Takemetothehospital is doing either.

It's not as if they don't have a choice. This retroactive judgement on other people for what they themself decided to do is incredibly petty.

Both the cocaine and BigMac analogies are terribly off. A BigMac cannot decide whether or not it will allow itself to be bitten. And a cocaine addict? Are you seriously likening that to recreational sex?

Asking people to change their lifestyles, or at least attempting to make them feel guilt, so that they adapt to your belief system, on that they do not share, is very unfair.

The phrasing of one sentence in particular is quite alarming:

you guys are stealing away the virginity from these girls and leaving us with the scraps.

The diction used here leaves the impression that said women are not active, willing participants and that once they do make that choice, they are nothing but spoiled goods. I find that to be highly offensive. That may not be your meaning, but it is not ambiguous at all now in how it is read.

I rather enjoyed talking with you before padib, but I must say that I'm quite surprised by all of the anger and bitterness here.



ooooh padib, you closeminded fool and your confirmation bias. "I can do it therefore anyone can do it" is not a good argument no matter what you're debating. also, six months is not 19 years. Everyone is different, and the fact that you can't seem to accept that proves that yes, you are kind of an idiot. I trust a doctor much more than I trust an arrogant forum poster.

You go back to your own fantasy world where everything operates based on your own perceptions, I'll stick to my science thank you very much.



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oh I understood what you were trying to say, and it was ineffectual. if you quoted the REST of my post you'd see I included criticism about how you failed to understand not all people are the same, also that 6 months is not the same as 19 years.

Also, I read that post about "I have a problem with people having sex with everyone", and the logic is so flawed I'm beginning to think you're trollin, which would make your posts funny rather than eyerollingly irrational.



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Seriously guys, if you want to argue then do it through PMs because this topic keeps getting bumped and I get a strong feeling that this is a troll topic from a troll OP who is getting exactly what he wants. I realize that I've also posted in this topic but you get what I'm trying to say.



Cirio said:
Seriously guys, if you want to argue then do it through PMs because this topic keeps getting bumped and I get a strong feeling that this is a troll topic from a troll OP who is getting exactly what he wants. I realize that I've also posted in this topic but you get what I'm trying to say.

Definitely on the mark.

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DélioPT said:
I agree.


Awesome! I'll see you in heaven!

That struck me as both hilarious and disingenuous.



padib said:
Runa216 said:
oh I understood what you were trying to say, and it was ineffectual. if you quoted the REST of my post you'd see I included criticism about how you failed to understand not all people are the same, also that 6 months is not the same as 19 years.

Also, I read that post about "I have a problem with people having sex with everyone", and the logic is so flawed I'm beginning to think you're trollin, which would make your posts funny rather than eyerollingly irrational.

Stop calling my view irrational, it's getting very insulting. I don't care what view you're from, you can't justify it. Don't call me a fool, and don't call me closedminded, especially when I've proven to this forum over the year that I have been very open to other points of view and to criticism and have been able to bend my views to others.

If you continue I will be very insulted.

bye!

But what you're saying IS irrational, and so are your arguments...if you're offended by my observations then something tells me it's not me who's the problem here.  



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padib said:
Runa216 said:
The thing I find funniest about this thread is how biologically WRONG it is.

I had a friend who went to the doctors, worried he had testicular cancer because of the immense pain in his balls...and the doctor said he had a chronic case of blueballs and prescribed masturbation...because my friend had the same backwards view of sexuality that those evangelicals do. He was a firm believer in "No sex or masturbation before marriage", and he got blueballs.

the male body cannot live without occasional release, it's a biological imperative. Just another way the church has somehow managed to overthrow science. Don't you love archaic but persistent belief systems?

This is the biggest fucking bullshit ever. The fact that he is getting blueballs is not singly linked to the fact that he's abstaining. First and foremost, the guy probably needs to get physically active. The reason I say that is because the body releases natural hormones to stimulate your body and the increased bloodflow causes natural erections and, hopefully if he's healthy, natural wet dreams.

He has blueballs because he's a fuckin jellyfish, that's my gut feeling on it, and I don't even know the guy.

o_O.Q said:

shes stupid for seeking sexual gratification?

She's stupid becuase she bases her marriage on her first few sexual experiences with her partner.

Read the situation he wrote carefully:  "how do you know she won't get a divorce early"

If she does that fuck her, honestly.

"This is the biggest fucking bullshit ever. The fact that he is getting blueballs is not singly linked to the fact that he's abstaining. First and foremost, the guy probably needs to get physically active. The reason I say that is because the body releases natural hormones to stimulate your body and the increased bloodflow causes natural erections and, hopefully if he's healthy, natural wet dreams.

He has blueballs because he's a fuckin jellyfish, that's my gut feeling on it, and I don't even know the guy."

lmfao padib the reproductive organs are just like any other organs in that if you don't use them after time they become less effective at their job... just like if for example a muscle isn't used for a long period of time it begins to atrophy and break down

another thing i remember is scientists saying that humans have testicles that in terms of a biological sense do not match up with a monogonous species because of their size