Everyone should remain pure until marriage.

[pearljammer]

brendude13 said:

padib said:

I have a problem with people who go around having sex with just anyone and here's why. For those of us who are looking for faithful pleasure (me, wfz, tads12), you guys (takemetothehospital) are stealing away the virginity from these girls and leaving us with the scraps.

Now don't get me wrong, I will love my soulmate no matter her past, but you will have left a dark spot there especially if you're being dishonest with her. If you're honest and she's open to it, you're helping her/him to spoil their purity. That's bad for us. You think it's okay. Well, a cocaine addict is open to having cocaine, it doesn't make it good for them.

:D Great, now you get to hear what I actually think. Yes, it's a personal decision, but yes you're screwing it up for us... Everytime you pop a cherry I want you to know how much it pisses me off.

Here is why you pissed me off:

Takemetothehospital said:

I'm glad i started young cause I've popped my fair share of cherries. The younger they are the more appreciative. 21+ girls are way too experienced these days. It's just not the same anymore hey. You're forced to work way harder in the bedroom....

I know what you mean, you don't want to order your first Big-Mac and find someone's taken a big fucking bite out of it.

While I don't agree with Ps3, I don't agree with that Takemetothehospital is doing either.

It's not as if they don't have a choice. This retroactive judgement on other people for what they themself decided to do is incredibly petty.

Both the cocaine and BigMac analogies are terribly off. A BigMac cannot decide whether or not it will allow itself to be bitten. And a cocaine addict? Are you seriously likening that to recreational sex?

Asking people to change their lifestyles, or at least attempting to make them feel guilt, so that they adapt to your belief system, on that they do not share, is very unfair.

The phrasing of one sentence in particular is quite alarming:

you guys are stealing away the virginity from these girls and leaving us with the scraps.

The diction used here leaves the impression that said women are not active, willing participants and that once they do make that choice, they are nothing but spoiled goods. I find that to be highly offensive. That may not be your meaning, but it is not ambiguous at all now in how it is read.

I rather enjoyed talking with you before padib, but I must say that I'm quite surprised by all of the anger and bitterness here.