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Mr Khan on 12 November 2010
Cheebee said:
Mr Khan said:

 Now, this would be fun in and of itself, but it would require me to sink a good deal of money into, given that it would require a taxi ride (though a shared taxi ride because we live in the same apartment complex), preorder tickets, and other possible sticky consequences. I am both cheap and lazy, so the only thing to really get me into this is this peculiar romantic motive

So what should i do? Should i find out if her feelings are mutual before sinking a bunch of money into this, or should i just shut the hell up and do it and see where it goes?

If the former, how would i go about that? Is there some non-direct way i can ascertain these things at minimal cost and risk?

Sir, if you want her to feel the same way about you as you feel about her, DO NOT let her pay a thing.

Nothing screams 'a fun night out with just a friend and definitely not a date with a guy I'm interested in' like splitting bills. Seriously. If you're into her, you'll have to man up and spend a little. ;)

The extra issue being that some of her friends (as well as one mutual acquaintance of ours) will be there as well. Hence the sticky consequences i mentioned.



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Cheebee on 12 November 2010
Mr Khan said:
Cheebee said:
Mr Khan said:

 Now, this would be fun in and of itself, but it would require me to sink a good deal of money into, given that it would require a taxi ride (though a shared taxi ride because we live in the same apartment complex), preorder tickets, and other possible sticky consequences. I am both cheap and lazy, so the only thing to really get me into this is this peculiar romantic motive

So what should i do? Should i find out if her feelings are mutual before sinking a bunch of money into this, or should i just shut the hell up and do it and see where it goes?

If the former, how would i go about that? Is there some non-direct way i can ascertain these things at minimal cost and risk?

Sir, if you want her to feel the same way about you as you feel about her, DO NOT let her pay a thing.

Nothing screams 'a fun night out with just a friend and definitely not a date with a guy I'm interested in' like splitting bills. Seriously. If you're into her, you'll have to man up and spend a little. ;)

The extra issue being that some of her friends (as well as one mutual acquaintance of ours) will be there as well. Hence the sticky consequences i mentioned.

Well, that's it, you're screwed. She's never going to see it as a romantic date, if that's the case.. No way. You'd better ask her out on a new date, just the 2 of you. And then pay for stuff. And compliment her. That'd be  a good start!



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voty2000 on 12 November 2010

Puts on:

If she has big boobs, take her to dinner as well.  If not, dump her.

Seriously though, she may not know yet how she really feels about you either and if you bring it up it may make her feel rushed.  I'd say take her out and try to have a good time.  At the end of the date, feel her out to see how she feels.  If you still get nervous on dates this would be good practice to get your confidence up as well. 



NiKKoM on 12 November 2010
Cheebee said:
Mr Khan said:
Cheebee said:
Mr Khan said:

 Now, this would be fun in and of itself, but it would require me to sink a good deal of money into, given that it would require a taxi ride (though a shared taxi ride because we live in the same apartment complex), preorder tickets, and other possible sticky consequences. I am both cheap and lazy, so the only thing to really get me into this is this peculiar romantic motive

So what should i do? Should i find out if her feelings are mutual before sinking a bunch of money into this, or should i just shut the hell up and do it and see where it goes?

If the former, how would i go about that? Is there some non-direct way i can ascertain these things at minimal cost and risk?

Sir, if you want her to feel the same way about you as you feel about her, DO NOT let her pay a thing.

Nothing screams 'a fun night out with just a friend and definitely not a date with a guy I'm interested in' like splitting bills. Seriously. If you're into her, you'll have to man up and spend a little. ;)

The extra issue being that some of her friends (as well as one mutual acquaintance of ours) will be there as well. Hence the sticky consequences i mentioned.

Well, that's it, you're screwed. She's never going to see it as a romantic date, if that's the case.. No way. You'd better ask her out on a new date, just the 2 of you. And then pay for stuff. And compliment her. That'd be  a good start!

What kinda advice is that... don't listen to Cheebee.. "sticky consequences" I would call it extra opportunities..  if it doesn't work out you could hit on one of her friends.. ;)



 

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darthdevidem01 on 12 November 2010

Does she play with her hair when she's around you?

Does she laugh even when you make bad jokes (only applicable if you make bad jokes)?

Take her out on another "date" and observe her more!!!

But duuuude with a hot body like this

How can she not find you irresistable?!?!?!!!!!

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iBlah on 12 November 2010

http://gamrconnect.vgchartz.com/thread.php?id=119304&page=1#



 

Mr Khan on 12 November 2010

Hmmm... Cheebee's advice actually seems halfway sound.

 

More advice in light of the fact that her friends will be there?



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A Bad Clown on 12 November 2010

1. Is she fat?

Yes go to 3 No go to 2

2. Does she breath?

Yes go to 4 No go to 3

3. Does she look like she would work out or try to stay fit if you dated her?

No go to 5 Yes go to 4

4. Are you actually confortable around her?

Yes go for it! No go to 5

5. DO NOT WANT!

 



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kevin the wiiite on 12 November 2010

HAHAHA!!!  I just had that exact same problem!!!!

From noob to noob:  Do not under any circumstances tell her you'll keep twitter's dedicated Justin Beiber servers up just for her.  Do not compiment the same garment reapeatedly.  Do not tell her about your new minesweeper high scores every day.

Dos:  Shell out the cash for her and she'll know your interested.  Once she fully understands how you think of her, she'll see you in a different light and act differently towards you (you'll know when you see it cuz she'll either be super friendly to you or shun you).  It's pretty much the only way to know for sure.



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the conduit has changed the way wii play games.

I know.  I'm sick of the puns too.

.jayderyu on 12 November 2010

I chime in as. Just hand out with her as a friend. Don't be concerned implying other emotions into it. Also going out for the experience of handing with a friend is awesome any time. Go to the movie and just hang out. Just don't impress and enjoy your time together.



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