Cheebee said:
Mr Khan said:
Cheebee said:
Mr Khan said:
Now, this would be fun in and of itself, but it would require me to sink a good deal of money into, given that it would require a taxi ride (though a shared taxi ride because we live in the same apartment complex), preorder tickets, and other possible sticky consequences. I am both cheap and lazy, so the only thing to really get me into this is this peculiar romantic motive
So what should i do? Should i find out if her feelings are mutual before sinking a bunch of money into this, or should i just shut the hell up and do it and see where it goes?
If the former, how would i go about that? Is there some non-direct way i can ascertain these things at minimal cost and risk?
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Sir, if you want her to feel the same way about you as you feel about her, DO NOT let her pay a thing.
Nothing screams 'a fun night out with just a friend and definitely not a date with a guy I'm interested in' like splitting bills. Seriously. If you're into her, you'll have to man up and spend a little. ;)
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The extra issue being that some of her friends (as well as one mutual acquaintance of ours) will be there as well. Hence the sticky consequences i mentioned.
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Well, that's it, you're screwed. She's never going to see it as a romantic date, if that's the case.. No way. You'd better ask her out on a new date, just the 2 of you. And then pay for stuff. And compliment her. That'd be a good start!
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What kinda advice is that... don't listen to Cheebee.. "sticky consequences" I would call it extra opportunities.. if it doesn't work out you could hit on one of her friends.. ;)
