| wfz said: Porn can be harmful. It's possible to become very physically picky and judgemental towards your gender of preference. It makes real relationships harder as you seek the best physical bodies for sex. Porn makes sex more physical and less emotional. Of course everyone reacts in varying ways and degrees to all things, but porn can be a negative influence for many. |
This is probably true but this can happen with a lot of things.
People who like it clean and clean a lot can be very picky about the places they are in to enhance the example from an other poster.
For myself - Yeah it kinda is that way but not mainly cause of porn.
Porn gives the illusion those bodies are perfect but most of those girls there look kinda ugly without the perfect light and all you need for a movie.
Same goes for most actors,especially the female ones.Some of them look like angels in the movies and like shit in real life.
I never changed my attitude towards girls cause of porn.I thought to myself "They look damn nice" but at the same time you can destroy that illusion so fast if you search for Daily life pictures of those pornstars.They mostly look like a complete different person in real life.
For myself the Gym did what you described.
I got extremely picky - If a girl isn't fit,possibly has nice abs and a clear sign of a fitness level i don't care about her.
I put so much work into my body and of course it took time before it showed results but there is no excuse for not working towards it.
Girls who work seriously out have my attention.Everyone else not - Especially those who smoke,drink alcohol and eat like a pig.Sure they can be skinny but this has nothing to do with a healty body.This is why porn didn't influence me that much.Those girls are mostly ugly outside of the set.
Fit girls aren't - They are awesome and i never ever would date a girl who isn't into it.Cause what i learned > Really beautiful people can have a great personality too.They can be gamers,be smart and all those things some people think only fat and ugly people can have.
I always hear that > Its the personality that matters.Guess what?Fit girls can have a great personality too and to be honest in 2 years i have never met a fit girl with an ugly personality or in general one who isn't extremley attractive.
They are all smart,funny,some of them are into games and all that stuff.Had a lot of nice moments,made a lot of friends and had some nice experiences(if you know what i mean) with those girls.
But if you go to the 0815 Random Slut in a club > Smokes,drinks,thinks she is the most important being in the world,has absolutely no reference level,has mostly completely stupid hobbies and tastes and is surrounded by a bunch of retarded wannabe gangsters.
And yeah - Surroundings can definitely influence you.
So its probably possible some guys wish for a girl who is doing the exact same moves like those girls in the movies.The exact same rotation with all the things...Maybe even the same "story" line and hope it is happening exactly like that.
Your daily life can influence you in an extreme way and so can your hobbies.
So i think to much porn can be bad for your social life cause you will get even more picky than me but at the same time mostly don't have something to show off.
Cause im pretty sure if people think that way they also think "Hey that guy in the movie looks like a skinny retard - I don't have to be a ____(insert something) - I just can stay the way i am.Someday a beautiful girl with knock on my door and will ask me for sugar and THEN MY TIME TO SHINE HAS COME!"
